"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FINALLY! Got her number...but IL seems low...

Latinoman

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Last Man Standing said:
Maybe she never received your message for whatever reason and she thinks that you did not call? Or maybe she is too shy to call back -- shy girls don't call dudes!

You should always call back twice to follow-up a few days later and then leave her alone! One call could be missed but you know two calls are being ignored!
Excellent advice.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tantric

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Called her...

Yes, I did leave a message.

Kept it short and light. I did not say, "give me a call back" or anything like that...

Am I expecting a reply? Nah...

Insticts tell me what I already know...I think as my ego is "huge", I tend to deny when I am getting dissed and such.

I won't contact her again.

D - O - N - E

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what's her number? if she doesn't call you back we will all call her and rip on her.

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Ha!

I should just pretend I don't know her if I run into her again...

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