Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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finally gonna lose the v card

Colin O'Brien

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100% sure, its goin down on friday night. Any last minute tips? this girl is pretty experienced btw
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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saber

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just get ready for the best 30 seconds of your life...lol
 

C-quenced

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Just be sure she's not some ugo you'll end up having nightmares about for years to come. Other than that I'll be the first one to congratulate you. :up:
 

tsmith2334

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My advice? Don't be so sure you're even gonna get laid. Ever heard of LMR? It happens all the time. Plus, girls love spontaneous sex, promising yourself it's gonna happen could hurt your chances.

Unless the sex will be with a prostitute. In that case, wear a rubber.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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pua1989

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Just have a good time baby!!!!! man, i lost my vcard to a 33yr old black mom in the middle of compton..no joke
 

Aragon034

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Deep breaths, control yourself, and for the love of god don't **** yourself.
 

DonJuan11

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tsmith2334 said:
My advice? Don't be so sure you're even gonna get laid. Ever heard of LMR? It happens all the time. Plus, girls love spontaneous sex, promising yourself it's gonna happen could hurt your chances.

Unless the sex will be with a prostitute. In that case, wear a rubber.
Exactly.
 

Mavrick

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saber said:
just get ready for the best 30 seconds of your life...lol
:crackup:
 

daring wraith

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Wash, wear clean, tasteful underwear and remember to remove your socks before you get naked.

Be safe, you don't want your first time to be your last time.

Relax, have fun.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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guywhoneedshelp

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Jack off before you get there.

Or enjoy the most memorable 30 seconds of your life.
 
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