Colin O'Brien
Don Juan
100% sure, its goin down on friday night. Any last minute tips? this girl is pretty experienced btw
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
finally gonna lose the v card
- Thread starter Colin O'Brien
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Relationship-Buddy
Don Juan
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Good Luck and "Be Safe"!
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
My advice? Don't be so sure you're even gonna get laid. Ever heard of LMR? It happens all the time. Plus, girls love spontaneous sex, promising yourself it's gonna happen could hurt your chances.
Unless the sex will be with a prostitute. In that case, wear a rubber.
Unless the sex will be with a prostitute. In that case, wear a rubber.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
daring wraith
Don Juan
Wash, wear clean, tasteful underwear and remember to remove your socks before you get naked.
Be safe, you don't want your first time to be your last time.
Relax, have fun.
Be safe, you don't want your first time to be your last time.
Relax, have fun.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
guywhoneedshelp
Master Don Juan
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Jack off before you get there.
Or enjoy the most memorable 30 seconds of your life.
Or enjoy the most memorable 30 seconds of your life.