"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BrocKing11

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Hey thought i would get some input on this.
Ive been thinking of a good message to leave for girls who dont return your calls, but you figure you would give them one more chance.

Hey (name) its (name), I was really dissapointed that you didnt call, and normally i wouldnt put up with it, but since i like you so much i thought i would give you one more chance, but this is it. Im going (place) this (day and time) and would like for you to join me. So make up your mind and give me a call.

What do you think. any flaws or suggestions to make it better?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jerky Boi

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Don't leave a message :D If she wants to call you back, she will. Normally, most girls I know don't usually return calls. I wouldn't get worked up about it.
 

Juggalo

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Don't leave a message. Just keep trying back until you get someone. But don't call 20 times a day.....some people have caller I.D. and it will really make you look desperate. ;)
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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I would never leave a message unless it is somthing urgent i have to say. If you phone the house number you can try all you wnat and wont seme desprate as the times they don't pick up they wont know its you. Re read the question you orginialy asked you say "normally i wouldnt put up with it, but since i like you so much i thought i would give you one more chance" that sounds very desprate, remember you do not want to seem needey and clingy. If you really wnat to leave a message then you can mention you like her and want to meet up, do not aks why she is not rerurning your calls, just say, the ball is in your court, if you want to meet up, phone me, if not then youve missed out.

i hope ive been a help
 

BrocKing11

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ok great. thanks for all the help. but if you are going to leave a message should you mention something like "give me a call, if you dont, youve missed out" or should you leave that last part out?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BrocKing11

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also is it a good idea to somewhat push them along in their decision by saying something like "this will be my last call unless you tell me different"?
 

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Originally posted by BrocKing11

but since i like you so much
Enough said.
 

Sammo

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Dude that sucks.

Never leave messages.

If she isnt returning a call then just dont leave a message, just forget about her.
 
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