"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BrocKing11

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Hey thought i would get some input on this.
Ive been thinking of a good message to leave for girls who dont return your calls, but you figure you would give them one more chance.

Hey (name) its (name), I was really dissapointed that you didnt call, and normally i wouldnt put up with it, but since i like you so much i thought i would give you one more chance, but this is it. Im going (place) this (day and time) and would like for you to join me. So make up your mind and give me a call.

What do you think. any flaws or suggestions to make it better?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jerky Boi

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Don't leave a message :D If she wants to call you back, she will. Normally, most girls I know don't usually return calls. I wouldn't get worked up about it.
 

Juggalo

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Don't leave a message. Just keep trying back until you get someone. But don't call 20 times a day.....some people have caller I.D. and it will really make you look desperate. ;)
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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I would never leave a message unless it is somthing urgent i have to say. If you phone the house number you can try all you wnat and wont seme desprate as the times they don't pick up they wont know its you. Re read the question you orginialy asked you say "normally i wouldnt put up with it, but since i like you so much i thought i would give you one more chance" that sounds very desprate, remember you do not want to seem needey and clingy. If you really wnat to leave a message then you can mention you like her and want to meet up, do not aks why she is not rerurning your calls, just say, the ball is in your court, if you want to meet up, phone me, if not then youve missed out.

i hope ive been a help
 

BrocKing11

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ok great. thanks for all the help. but if you are going to leave a message should you mention something like "give me a call, if you dont, youve missed out" or should you leave that last part out?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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BrocKing11

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also is it a good idea to somewhat push them along in their decision by saying something like "this will be my last call unless you tell me different"?
 

LikRetsam

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Originally posted by BrocKing11

but since i like you so much
Enough said.
 

Sammo

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Dude that sucks.

Never leave messages.

If she isnt returning a call then just dont leave a message, just forget about her.
 
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