"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Filipina Mail-Order bride's daughter wins Miss Texas

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This is what Miss Texas used to look like:

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I put a laugh reaction since you don't give up. To have taken the time, find this photo and post that up, and a black and white photo, to show how far America has regressed since the 1950s.....I'm sorry. Guess Miss Texas is too woke for allot of people.

A black and white photo though? You don't have more recent Miss Texas?
 

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I am reminded of the fact that most Filipina winning candidates in international pageants are usually only half-Filipina.
 

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I put a laugh reaction since you don't give up. To have taken the time, find this photo and post that up, and a black and white photo, to show how far America has regressed since the 1950s.....I'm sorry. Guess Miss Texas is too woke for allot of people.

A black and white photo though? You don't have more recent Miss Texas?
She was Miss Texas in 1970. And she had aged very gracefully. She ended up marrying the guy that (with partners) bought Kentucky Fried Chicken from The Colonel.
 

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Miss Texas and Miss State X competitions have different criteria than SMV mate criteria.

Career and civic work don't contribute much, if anything to work. Interests and personality are contributing factors to women's SMV. Looks are the #1 determinant of a woman's SMV. Also a woman's past baggage is part of SMV. Kids from a prior relationship will drop SMV big time.
All things considered;

Fertility is #1 for a woman‘s SMV. Society will pay attention to a women if she looks average and is fertile age. If the woman is hot yet menopausal, society won’t care.

Being a slut will drop SMV a bit.

Divorce will drop SMV alot more than being a slut.

Kids will crash SMW into the ground.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hi MatureDJ,
If ever you visit the Philippines as I did just before COVID,should you visit decent Dance venues in say Puerto Prinsesa or Daveo,if you show a little skill on the floor,you would find many Young Ladies like this throwing themselves at you...And that's from a Geriatric LOL.
 

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Hi MatureDJ,
If ever you visit the Philippines as I did just before COVID,should you visit decent Dance venues in say Puerto Prinsesa or Daveo,if you show a little skill on the floor,you would find many Young Ladies like this throwing themselves at you...And that's from a Geriatric LOL.
But there is still the bar-fine that needs to be paid, right?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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