"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Filipina Mail-Order bride's daughter wins Miss Texas

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This is what Miss Texas used to look like:

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I put a laugh reaction since you don't give up. To have taken the time, find this photo and post that up, and a black and white photo, to show how far America has regressed since the 1950s.....I'm sorry. Guess Miss Texas is too woke for allot of people.

A black and white photo though? You don't have more recent Miss Texas?
 

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I am reminded of the fact that most Filipina winning candidates in international pageants are usually only half-Filipina.
 

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I put a laugh reaction since you don't give up. To have taken the time, find this photo and post that up, and a black and white photo, to show how far America has regressed since the 1950s.....I'm sorry. Guess Miss Texas is too woke for allot of people.

A black and white photo though? You don't have more recent Miss Texas?
She was Miss Texas in 1970. And she had aged very gracefully. She ended up marrying the guy that (with partners) bought Kentucky Fried Chicken from The Colonel.
 

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Miss Texas and Miss State X competitions have different criteria than SMV mate criteria.

Career and civic work don't contribute much, if anything to work. Interests and personality are contributing factors to women's SMV. Looks are the #1 determinant of a woman's SMV. Also a woman's past baggage is part of SMV. Kids from a prior relationship will drop SMV big time.
All things considered;

Fertility is #1 for a woman‘s SMV. Society will pay attention to a women if she looks average and is fertile age. If the woman is hot yet menopausal, society won’t care.

Being a slut will drop SMV a bit.

Divorce will drop SMV alot more than being a slut.

Kids will crash SMW into the ground.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hi MatureDJ,
If ever you visit the Philippines as I did just before COVID,should you visit decent Dance venues in say Puerto Prinsesa or Daveo,if you show a little skill on the floor,you would find many Young Ladies like this throwing themselves at you...And that's from a Geriatric LOL.
 

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Hi MatureDJ,
If ever you visit the Philippines as I did just before COVID,should you visit decent Dance venues in say Puerto Prinsesa or Daveo,if you show a little skill on the floor,you would find many Young Ladies like this throwing themselves at you...And that's from a Geriatric LOL.
But there is still the bar-fine that needs to be paid, right?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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