SW15
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 31, 2020
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Impressive! Much better than some mediocre looking East Asian SJW.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Impressive! Much better than some mediocre looking East Asian SJW.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I put a laugh reaction since you don't give up. To have taken the time, find this photo and post that up, and a black and white photo, to show how far America has regressed since the 1950s.....I'm sorry. Guess Miss Texas is too woke for allot of people.
She was Miss Texas in 1970. And she had aged very gracefully. She ended up marrying the guy that (with partners) bought Kentucky Fried Chicken from The Colonel.I put a laugh reaction since you don't give up. To have taken the time, find this photo and post that up, and a black and white photo, to show how far America has regressed since the 1950s.....I'm sorry. Guess Miss Texas is too woke for allot of people.
A black and white photo though? You don't have more recent Miss Texas?
en.wikipedia.org
All things considered;Miss Texas and Miss State X competitions have different criteria than SMV mate criteria.
Career and civic work don't contribute much, if anything to work. Interests and personality are contributing factors to women's SMV. Looks are the #1 determinant of a woman's SMV. Also a woman's past baggage is part of SMV. Kids from a prior relationship will drop SMV big time.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'll give a 5...pretty plain looking to me.She’s pretty cute. Solid 7. Only slightly below traditional pageant Queen standards.
Good luck finding 8+I'll give a 5...pretty plain looking to me.
You're right! 8+ are unicorns.Good luck finding 8+
But there is still the bar-fine that needs to be paid, right?Hi MatureDJ,
If ever you visit the Philippines as I did just before COVID,should you visit decent Dance venues in say Puerto Prinsesa or Daveo,if you show a little skill on the floor,you would find many Young Ladies like this throwing themselves at you...And that's from a Geriatric LOL.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
No, I think I do pretty well in interviews, but at some point, folks started looking only for unicorns.Maybe the only explanation is that actually suck in interviews and/or have done anything to show it on your resume?