"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Fights Fights Fights... what to do?
- Thread starter Climax
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Don Pablo
Senior Don Juan
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Just something to consider.
Don Pablo
Senior Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
diplomatic_lie
Master Don Juan
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But generally I prefer to avoid arguments. If a girl I date argues with me, I just remind her philosophically to look at the big picture, instead of getting fussed about the petty details. That usually ends the argument on good terms.
I USE to be a playa etc.... so now my gf keeps on having these doughbts that 1 day i'll just leave her for some other girl, or that i am just "playing" her, so everytime another girl comes into the picture or is brought up my gf gets all insecure and that normally leads to an arguement.
So here is my question.... How do i get to trust me fully given my past? (And please dont say "time")
We do go out places, we do get along well, everything is like "perfect", untill her insecurities come up, and its starting to annoy me alot, so any opinions on this would be appreciated.
Thanx
Laterz...
m4a1
Senior Don Juan
He got banned in the end, although I looked at his last few posts and didn't see anything worthy of getting banned over, but hey, maybe he PM'ed SoSuave.com with a death threat, who knows.