“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fights Fights Fights... what to do?

How often do you fight with your gf?

  • Every Day

    Votes: 1 16.7%
  • Often

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Hardly Ever

    Votes: 4 66.7%
  • Never

    Votes: 1 16.7%

  • Total voters
    6

Climax

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For those of u here that have gf's.... How often do you fight with her, and tell us some stories of ur fights, and how u "made it better" again.:rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Climax

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hmmmmm?

But i mean... did the 2 of u not argue and get angry with 1 another at all during ur relationship?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Sometimes you need to consider what you argue about moreso than the amount of arguments that you have. Also, do all disagreements merit a fight, is it not enough to agree to disagree?

Just something to consider.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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diplomatic_lie

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Yeah I remember Joe Collapoppa, that guy has some funny ass stories. I wonder if his "girlfriend" still beats him up.


But generally I prefer to avoid arguments. If a girl I date argues with me, I just remind her philosophically to look at the big picture, instead of getting fussed about the petty details. That usually ends the argument on good terms.
 

Climax

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Ok shweet.... but here's 1 more problem that i have....

I USE to be a playa etc.... so now my gf keeps on having these doughbts that 1 day i'll just leave her for some other girl, or that i am just "playing" her, so everytime another girl comes into the picture or is brought up my gf gets all insecure and that normally leads to an arguement.

So here is my question.... How do i get to trust me fully given my past? (And please dont say "time")

We do go out places, we do get along well, everything is like "perfect", untill her insecurities come up, and its starting to annoy me alot, so any opinions on this would be appreciated.

Thanx;)

Laterz...
 

m4a1

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Yeah, Joe was a funny dude.

He got banned in the end, although I looked at his last few posts and didn't see anything worthy of getting banned over, but hey, maybe he PM'ed SoSuave.com with a death threat, who knows.
 
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