Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Fights Fights Fights... what to do?

How often do you fight with your gf?

  • Every Day

    Votes: 1 16.7%
  • Often

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Hardly Ever

    Votes: 4 66.7%
  • Never

    Votes: 1 16.7%

  • Total voters
    6

Climax

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For those of u here that have gf's.... How often do you fight with her, and tell us some stories of ur fights, and how u "made it better" again.:rolleyes:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Climax

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hmmmmm?

But i mean... did the 2 of u not argue and get angry with 1 another at all during ur relationship?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Sometimes you need to consider what you argue about moreso than the amount of arguments that you have. Also, do all disagreements merit a fight, is it not enough to agree to disagree?

Just something to consider.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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diplomatic_lie

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Yeah I remember Joe Collapoppa, that guy has some funny ass stories. I wonder if his "girlfriend" still beats him up.


But generally I prefer to avoid arguments. If a girl I date argues with me, I just remind her philosophically to look at the big picture, instead of getting fussed about the petty details. That usually ends the argument on good terms.
 

Climax

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Ok shweet.... but here's 1 more problem that i have....

I USE to be a playa etc.... so now my gf keeps on having these doughbts that 1 day i'll just leave her for some other girl, or that i am just "playing" her, so everytime another girl comes into the picture or is brought up my gf gets all insecure and that normally leads to an arguement.

So here is my question.... How do i get to trust me fully given my past? (And please dont say "time")

We do go out places, we do get along well, everything is like "perfect", untill her insecurities come up, and its starting to annoy me alot, so any opinions on this would be appreciated.

Thanx;)

Laterz...
 

m4a1

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Yeah, Joe was a funny dude.

He got banned in the end, although I looked at his last few posts and didn't see anything worthy of getting banned over, but hey, maybe he PM'ed SoSuave.com with a death threat, who knows.
 
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