ok so im at school (shpmore) and recently i have been appling the slilent treatment to my X girlfrend because i am pursing to get back together with her.....but she has a new bf and.....she is always saying of how she still has feeling for me! so since she is still going out with that guy, i decided to give her the silent treatment until she comes to her sences and goes with my fine ass!!!!!!!!!!! recently she has been coming up to me and saying that we need to talk! but as long as she is going with him! i am treating her like a dork! and its really getting to her! so we well see what happens guys!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Field Report
- Thread starter S-lemond
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
DonMEgaHoss
Don Juan
Hmmm. You know girls are like monkeys.... They wont let go of one branch until they have a grip on another. She might be using you as a back up, By keeping you on the back-burner. But I dont know the whole deal is. Then again she could be feelin' you still. Just give her the benefit of the doubt. Just be smooth like silk, not the soy milk but the milk you feed then squirrels with them nuts stuffed in there mouth. 
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Can you say "holla back boy"?
P.S. Too bad this isn't a FR.
P.S. Too bad this isn't a FR.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Hey check it out, your asking what to do with your ex girl and your girl's new bf is asking what he should do about her ex bf (you)! hahahaha
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=84224
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=84224
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.