ok so im at school (shpmore) and recently i have been appling the slilent treatment to my X girlfrend because i am pursing to get back together with her.....but she has a new bf and.....she is always saying of how she still has feeling for me! so since she is still going out with that guy, i decided to give her the silent treatment until she comes to her sences and goes with my fine ass!!!!!!!!!!! recently she has been coming up to me and saying that we need to talk! but as long as she is going with him! i am treating her like a dork! and its really getting to her! so we well see what happens guys!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Field Report
- Thread starter S-lemond
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DonMEgaHoss
Don Juan
Hmmm. You know girls are like monkeys.... They wont let go of one branch until they have a grip on another. She might be using you as a back up, By keeping you on the back-burner. But I dont know the whole deal is. Then again she could be feelin' you still. Just give her the benefit of the doubt. Just be smooth like silk, not the soy milk but the milk you feed then squirrels with them nuts stuffed in there mouth. 
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Can you say "holla back boy"?
P.S. Too bad this isn't a FR.
P.S. Too bad this isn't a FR.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Hey check it out, your asking what to do with your ex girl and your girl's new bf is asking what he should do about her ex bf (you)! hahahaha
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=84224
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=84224
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.