ok so im at school (shpmore) and recently i have been appling the slilent treatment to my X girlfrend because i am pursing to get back together with her.....but she has a new bf and.....she is always saying of how she still has feeling for me! so since she is still going out with that guy, i decided to give her the silent treatment until she comes to her sences and goes with my fine ass!!!!!!!!!!! recently she has been coming up to me and saying that we need to talk! but as long as she is going with him! i am treating her like a dork! and its really getting to her! so we well see what happens guys!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Field Report
- Thread starter S-lemond
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DonMEgaHoss
Don Juan
Hmmm. You know girls are like monkeys.... They wont let go of one branch until they have a grip on another. She might be using you as a back up, By keeping you on the back-burner. But I dont know the whole deal is. Then again she could be feelin' you still. Just give her the benefit of the doubt. Just be smooth like silk, not the soy milk but the milk you feed then squirrels with them nuts stuffed in there mouth. 
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Can you say "holla back boy"?
P.S. Too bad this isn't a FR.
P.S. Too bad this isn't a FR.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Hey check it out, your asking what to do with your ex girl and your girl's new bf is asking what he should do about her ex bf (you)! hahahaha
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=84224
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=84224
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.