ok so im at school (shpmore) and recently i have been appling the slilent treatment to my X girlfrend because i am pursing to get back together with her.....but she has a new bf and.....she is always saying of how she still has feeling for me! so since she is still going out with that guy, i decided to give her the silent treatment until she comes to her sences and goes with my fine ass!!!!!!!!!!! recently she has been coming up to me and saying that we need to talk! but as long as she is going with him! i am treating her like a dork! and its really getting to her! so we well see what happens guys!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Field Report
- Thread starter S-lemond
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DonMEgaHoss
Don Juan
Hmmm. You know girls are like monkeys.... They wont let go of one branch until they have a grip on another. She might be using you as a back up, By keeping you on the back-burner. But I dont know the whole deal is. Then again she could be feelin' you still. Just give her the benefit of the doubt. Just be smooth like silk, not the soy milk but the milk you feed then squirrels with them nuts stuffed in there mouth. 
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Can you say "holla back boy"?
P.S. Too bad this isn't a FR.
P.S. Too bad this isn't a FR.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Hey check it out, your asking what to do with your ex girl and your girl's new bf is asking what he should do about her ex bf (you)! hahahaha
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=84224
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=84224
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.