ok so im at school (shpmore) and recently i have been appling the slilent treatment to my X girlfrend because i am pursing to get back together with her.....but she has a new bf and.....she is always saying of how she still has feeling for me! so since she is still going out with that guy, i decided to give her the silent treatment until she comes to her sences and goes with my fine ass!!!!!!!!!!! recently she has been coming up to me and saying that we need to talk! but as long as she is going with him! i am treating her like a dork! and its really getting to her! so we well see what happens guys!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Field Report
- Thread starter S-lemond
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DonMEgaHoss
Don Juan
Hmmm. You know girls are like monkeys.... They wont let go of one branch until they have a grip on another. She might be using you as a back up, By keeping you on the back-burner. But I dont know the whole deal is. Then again she could be feelin' you still. Just give her the benefit of the doubt. Just be smooth like silk, not the soy milk but the milk you feed then squirrels with them nuts stuffed in there mouth. 
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Can you say "holla back boy"?
P.S. Too bad this isn't a FR.
P.S. Too bad this isn't a FR.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Hey check it out, your asking what to do with your ex girl and your girl's new bf is asking what he should do about her ex bf (you)! hahahaha
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=84224
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=84224
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.