beforeimgone
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 28, 2013
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Another kiss. Tons of rejection. I'm on fire
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I grab them by the arm and say wow you're sexy then I say some variance of come talk to me for a minute as I try to get them to move somewhere with me then I try to get them out of the clubWhat do you say when you approach? You talked to more girls tonight than I have in the past 10 years.
They would think I'm a creep if I got sexual right away.
I thought Guru's style was double booking online chicks.I see OP follows Guru's style: bold, shameless, unapologetic. Those three--alone--are all you need.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ill actually do that for money I need cash to pay for my last year or university are peopl here down for that?I thought Guru's style was double booking online chicks.
OP's style is much better. Walking up to DOZENS of girls a day, cold.
@beforeimgone
I would LOVE to see a statistical breakdown of everything.
No of girls approached
No of girls given number to
No of girls number gotten
No of boobies grabbed
No of girls kissed
No of girls sexed
Also, since your post so refreshingly different, I recommend you set up a gofundme page, and ask for donations from sosuavers to support you continuing field reports (if you include as much info as possible so guys like @RichardTheFrog can get some real street based data.)
I'd give you some $$ to support your efforts (so long as you did some objective reporting).
If you're really serious about that, then here's what you do.Ill actually do that for money I need cash to pay for my last year or university are peopl here down for that?
Dude that's an awesome idea. I can set up the gofundme now and will hit the mall tomorrow. What exactly are you guys looking for a breakdown on so I know to pay attention to it when I'm out there.I thought Guru's style was double booking online chicks.
OP's style is much better. Walking up to DOZENS of girls a day, cold.
@beforeimgone
I would LOVE to see a statistical breakdown of everything.
No of girls approached
No of girls given number to
No of girls number gotten
No of boobies grabbed
No of girls kissed
No of girls sexed
Also, since your post so refreshingly different, I recommend you set up a gofundme page, and ask for donations from sosuavers to support you continuing field reports (if you include as much info as possible so guys like @RichardTheFrog can get some real street based data.)
I'd give you some $$ to support your efforts (so long as you did some objective reporting).
Not too sure who guru is. Sounds awesome thoughI see OP follows Guru's style: bold, shameless, unapologetic. Those three--alone--are all you need.
Here he is:Not too sure who guru is. Sounds awesome though
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.