"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Field Report - Mall Now, Bars Later

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Danced with some chick. She ran away because her boyfriend was near. He came to me and said I could dance with her. I Danced with her and tried to fvck her. He said I was too aggressive. She wants to text me when he isn't around. Left my number. Shvt
 

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Saw a dude dancing with two chicks. Grabbed one and pulled her to a private spot. Left my number.

Club closed. Grabbed a chick and made out with her. She tasted like cigarettes. Got her to give me a blowjovb. She stopped after a while because she had work.

Night over
 

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Dude You got me. Im a DJ in blood and heart but Im going to turn iT up a notch. Expect a sick rapport tonight
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What do you say when you approach? You talked to more girls tonight than I have in the past 10 years.

They would think I'm a creep if I got sexual right away.
 

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What do you say when you approach? You talked to more girls tonight than I have in the past 10 years.

They would think I'm a creep if I got sexual right away.
I grab them by the arm and say wow you're sexy then I say some variance of come talk to me for a minute as I try to get them to move somewhere with me then I try to get them out of the club
 
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Im always flirty and making Some cexual indo jokes right off
 

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I see OP follows Guru's style: bold, shameless, unapologetic. Those three--alone--are all you need.
 

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I see OP follows Guru's style: bold, shameless, unapologetic. Those three--alone--are all you need.
I thought Guru's style was double booking online chicks.

OP's style is much better. Walking up to DOZENS of girls a day, cold.

@beforeimgone

I would LOVE to see a statistical breakdown of everything.

No of girls approached
No of girls given number to
No of girls number gotten
No of boobies grabbed
No of girls kissed
No of girls sexed

Also, since your post so refreshingly different, I recommend you set up a gofundme page, and ask for donations from sosuavers to support you continuing field reports (if you include as much info as possible so guys like @RichardTheFrog can get some real street based data.)

I'd give you some $$ to support your efforts (so long as you did some objective reporting).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I thought Guru's style was double booking online chicks.

OP's style is much better. Walking up to DOZENS of girls a day, cold.

@beforeimgone

I would LOVE to see a statistical breakdown of everything.

No of girls approached
No of girls given number to
No of girls number gotten
No of boobies grabbed
No of girls kissed
No of girls sexed

Also, since your post so refreshingly different, I recommend you set up a gofundme page, and ask for donations from sosuavers to support you continuing field reports (if you include as much info as possible so guys like @RichardTheFrog can get some real street based data.)

I'd give you some $$ to support your efforts (so long as you did some objective reporting).
Ill actually do that for money I need cash to pay for my last year or university are peopl here down for that?
 

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Ill actually do that for money I need cash to pay for my last year or university are peopl here down for that?
If you're really serious about that, then here's what you do.

1) First put up a couple (one a week at the very least) of play by play threads like OP. Where you talk to at least 30 girls on one day, and get as much success as OP.

2) Then put up a gofund me page.

3) Then continue to put up play by play threads, and in your sig, link to your gofund me page.

But the idea of the gofund me page was to pay for the exploits (drinks, cover charges, cologne, any test ideas by paying members etc,) not to make profits.
 

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I thought Guru's style was double booking online chicks.

OP's style is much better. Walking up to DOZENS of girls a day, cold.

@beforeimgone

I would LOVE to see a statistical breakdown of everything.

No of girls approached
No of girls given number to
No of girls number gotten
No of boobies grabbed
No of girls kissed
No of girls sexed

Also, since your post so refreshingly different, I recommend you set up a gofundme page, and ask for donations from sosuavers to support you continuing field reports (if you include as much info as possible so guys like @RichardTheFrog can get some real street based data.)

I'd give you some $$ to support your efforts (so long as you did some objective reporting).
Dude that's an awesome idea. I can set up the gofundme now and will hit the mall tomorrow. What exactly are you guys looking for a breakdown on so I know to pay attention to it when I'm out there.

If it gains traction then I'll start doing audio uploads

I see OP follows Guru's style: bold, shameless, unapologetic. Those three--alone--are all you need.
Not too sure who guru is. Sounds awesome though
 
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TO, maybe instead of paying others, you should get off your fat azz and approach too. I've yet to ever hear any FRs from you.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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