"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Feminism's affect on dating in america

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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depends on who you ask
 

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Feminism is everywhere.

It has been in existence for thousands of years and will continue to exist.

America is just getting more publicity hence the perception.
 

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There are feminists here in Italy too. I knew one professionally. Super fine shape (pro dance instructor) but not as hot as everyone made her out to be overall, not the prettiest face ever (not at all ugly mind). I have a friend who went nuts for her. Anyway she's a strong minded feminist and occasionally needed a stern telling off when her hormones made her say something particularly stupid.

One time she shared a story about the world's youngest airline captain being a girl, and how this was a huge triumph for women. LOL. Being an aviation guy I told her flatly that the reason more women don't become pilots is because it rarely interests them, not because of some paranoid patriarchal conspiracy to keep pu$$y out of the còckpit. She had nothing to say.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is feminism and political correctness killing the dating market in america and are men better off going to foreign nations to find long term relationships
No, b!tches are everywhere.

Just get better at not falling for their bullsh!t.
 

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Is feminism and political correctness killing the dating market in america and are men better off going to foreign nations to find long term relationships
Don't know about going to foreign nations just to find a wife. However, I absolutely agree that feminism and political correctness are destroying our society. Women are herd creatures. They follow the influence of others and need leadership in their life. That used to be what Men did for women. Men also can greatly benefit from the soothing, calm influence of a woman. It's a Ying and Yang.

But when women are left to their own erratic ways and means with no power check in place they literally burn the house down and burn alive inside with a smile on their face. It's like giving a child access to a candy store with no adult supervision and then the kid gets violently sick because he/she kept on gorging themselves on candy. The idea or thought to "stop" wouldn't even enter their mind.

The herd creature bases and gauges it's happiness off of following the external, even if it destroys them from the inside out. That is feminism. Women aren't introspective. The pain and sadness they feel from slvtting around, drinking and partying, trying to dominate men, pursuing masculine and stressful career paths they don't truly enjoy or feel satisfied in is concealed and kept repressed by more of the same behavior. They don't know how to address the pain and suffering they are putting themselves through because the external, i.e. feminism, social media, weak men, etc., keeps reassuring them they are doing the right thing. To self correct, to become introspective and will power force yourself to change is a masculine, male feature.

So what happens? We'll we've seen it all here on this forum:
1. Insane reactions by women we're dating to deep intimacy
2. high divorce, infidelity rates
3. bizarre "game" tactics to generate high interest
4. Major depression, high suicide rates of men
5. MGTOW
6. Politically correct strangulation from corporate HR dept. leading to mass firings, careers being ruined.
7. #MeToo movement
8. etc.

To be honest, I'm not sure we're at a point where we can salvage this. You can however, salvage yourself and protect yourself from what's going on. This doesn't mean don't date women, don't try to meet new people, have relationships or pursue your career goals. What it does mean however, is you must, no matter how brutally difficult it is, face the reality of what you're living in and dealing with as an American man in 2018. The deck is stacked. Watch your a$s.
 

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Italian girls take forever to seduce! Someone here said it's like feminism x Catholicism haha
Most girls here are quite traditionally minded, fed by several generations of properly lapis lazuli pill'd men. True pain in the a$$ feminists aren't as common as overseas thankfully.

The Catholicism is a front. A married Catholic girl will sext you whilst her husband is in the same room, if she likes you enough.
 

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I've never heard of a feminist sex doll.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There are feminists here in Italy too. I knew one professionally. Super fine shape (pro dance instructor) but not as hot as everyone made her out to be overall, not the prettiest face ever (not at all ugly mind). I have a friend who went nuts for her. Anyway she's a strong minded feminist and occasionally needed a stern telling off when her hormones made her say something particularly stupid.

One time she shared a story about the world's youngest airline captain being a girl, and how this was a huge triumph for women. LOL. Being an aviation guy I told her flatly that the reason more women don't become pilots is because it rarely interests them, not because of some paranoid patriarchal conspiracy to keep pu$$y out of the còckpit. She had nothing to say.
Just like engineer jobs
 

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Is feminism and political correctness killing the dating market in america and are men better off going to foreign nations to find long term relationships
Effect. The correct word is "EFFECT".
 
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