"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Feminism's affect on dating in america
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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One time she shared a story about the world's youngest airline captain being a girl, and how this was a huge triumph for women. LOL. Being an aviation guy I told her flatly that the reason more women don't become pilots is because it rarely interests them, not because of some paranoid patriarchal conspiracy to keep pu$$y out of the còckpit. She had nothing to say.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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btownbuck2012
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Don't know about going to foreign nations just to find a wife. However, I absolutely agree that feminism and political correctness are destroying our society. Women are herd creatures. They follow the influence of others and need leadership in their life. That used to be what Men did for women. Men also can greatly benefit from the soothing, calm influence of a woman. It's a Ying and Yang.
But when women are left to their own erratic ways and means with no power check in place they literally burn the house down and burn alive inside with a smile on their face. It's like giving a child access to a candy store with no adult supervision and then the kid gets violently sick because he/she kept on gorging themselves on candy. The idea or thought to "stop" wouldn't even enter their mind.
The herd creature bases and gauges it's happiness off of following the external, even if it destroys them from the inside out. That is feminism. Women aren't introspective. The pain and sadness they feel from slvtting around, drinking and partying, trying to dominate men, pursuing masculine and stressful career paths they don't truly enjoy or feel satisfied in is concealed and kept repressed by more of the same behavior. They don't know how to address the pain and suffering they are putting themselves through because the external, i.e. feminism, social media, weak men, etc., keeps reassuring them they are doing the right thing. To self correct, to become introspective and will power force yourself to change is a masculine, male feature.
So what happens? We'll we've seen it all here on this forum:
1. Insane reactions by women we're dating to deep intimacy
2. high divorce, infidelity rates
3. bizarre "game" tactics to generate high interest
4. Major depression, high suicide rates of men
5. MGTOW
6. Politically correct strangulation from corporate HR dept. leading to mass firings, careers being ruined.
7. #MeToo movement
8. etc.
To be honest, I'm not sure we're at a point where we can salvage this. You can however, salvage yourself and protect yourself from what's going on. This doesn't mean don't date women, don't try to meet new people, have relationships or pursue your career goals. What it does mean however, is you must, no matter how brutally difficult it is, face the reality of what you're living in and dealing with as an American man in 2018. The deck is stacked. Watch your a$s.
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Of course, who among us wouldn't? It's a natural desire.
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Most girls here are quite traditionally minded, fed by several generations of properly lapis lazuli pill'd men. True pain in the a$$ feminists aren't as common as overseas thankfully.
The Catholicism is a front. A married Catholic girl will sext you whilst her husband is in the same room, if she likes you enough.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Just like engineer jobs
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Effect. The correct word is "EFFECT".