"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Feminism's affect on dating in america
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
devilkingx2
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One time she shared a story about the world's youngest airline captain being a girl, and how this was a huge triumph for women. LOL. Being an aviation guy I told her flatly that the reason more women don't become pilots is because it rarely interests them, not because of some paranoid patriarchal conspiracy to keep pu$$y out of the còckpit. She had nothing to say.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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btownbuck2012
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Don't know about going to foreign nations just to find a wife. However, I absolutely agree that feminism and political correctness are destroying our society. Women are herd creatures. They follow the influence of others and need leadership in their life. That used to be what Men did for women. Men also can greatly benefit from the soothing, calm influence of a woman. It's a Ying and Yang.
But when women are left to their own erratic ways and means with no power check in place they literally burn the house down and burn alive inside with a smile on their face. It's like giving a child access to a candy store with no adult supervision and then the kid gets violently sick because he/she kept on gorging themselves on candy. The idea or thought to "stop" wouldn't even enter their mind.
The herd creature bases and gauges it's happiness off of following the external, even if it destroys them from the inside out. That is feminism. Women aren't introspective. The pain and sadness they feel from slvtting around, drinking and partying, trying to dominate men, pursuing masculine and stressful career paths they don't truly enjoy or feel satisfied in is concealed and kept repressed by more of the same behavior. They don't know how to address the pain and suffering they are putting themselves through because the external, i.e. feminism, social media, weak men, etc., keeps reassuring them they are doing the right thing. To self correct, to become introspective and will power force yourself to change is a masculine, male feature.
So what happens? We'll we've seen it all here on this forum:
1. Insane reactions by women we're dating to deep intimacy
2. high divorce, infidelity rates
3. bizarre "game" tactics to generate high interest
4. Major depression, high suicide rates of men
5. MGTOW
6. Politically correct strangulation from corporate HR dept. leading to mass firings, careers being ruined.
7. #MeToo movement
8. etc.
To be honest, I'm not sure we're at a point where we can salvage this. You can however, salvage yourself and protect yourself from what's going on. This doesn't mean don't date women, don't try to meet new people, have relationships or pursue your career goals. What it does mean however, is you must, no matter how brutally difficult it is, face the reality of what you're living in and dealing with as an American man in 2018. The deck is stacked. Watch your a$s.
btownbuck2012
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Of course, who among us wouldn't? It's a natural desire.
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Most girls here are quite traditionally minded, fed by several generations of properly lapis lazuli pill'd men. True pain in the a$$ feminists aren't as common as overseas thankfully.
The Catholicism is a front. A married Catholic girl will sext you whilst her husband is in the same room, if she likes you enough.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Just like engineer jobs
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Effect. The correct word is "EFFECT".