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who am i to argue with that? whats a good way to play the cute angle?
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
females say i am cute
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I like to approach this in a more humble manner and simply say "I bet you say that to every guy".
This all depends on your personality. Odds are they're taking your attitude and demeanor into account when they say that so whatever you're doing it's working.
If you're a funny guy, say something funny. If you're cool, say something cool. Sarcastic, sarcastic. You get the idea.
If you're a funny guy, say something funny. If you're cool, say something cool. Sarcastic, sarcastic. You get the idea.
LoneSilver
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No offence as a man I don't want a girl telling me I am cute that word means pretty when a girls says it to a guy to me cute belongs to a kitten or a puppy...
I'd prefer a lady to say something like your very sexy, masculine or manly not cute..If a girl told me I was cute I would properly have a discussion about her choice of words I don't think I care to be seen as neutered in the eyes of the woman I am going to screw
LoneSilver
I'd prefer a lady to say something like your very sexy, masculine or manly not cute..If a girl told me I was cute I would properly have a discussion about her choice of words I don't think I care to be seen as neutered in the eyes of the woman I am going to screw
LoneSilver
No offence as a man I don't want a girl telling me I am cute that word means pretty when a girls says it to a guy to me cute belongs to a kitten or a puppy
"Cute" is just a safe word people use when flirting. If you bump into a girl at the grocery store and strike up a conversation she might mix in a your cute so you know she's attracted....It's a much safer word than sexy or stud Those other words make people think of sex lol
Guys call girls cute all the time when meeting first in public. Girl wont be offended if you say hey "Cutie etc.. sexy, hottie, etc thats a different story
Same thing for girls....Cute is just a safe word. Cute pretty much means handsome these days. Its a safe way for somebody to compliment you and show interest without going over the top using words like sexy, hottie etc
"Cute" is just a safe word people use when flirting. If you bump into a girl at the grocery store and strike up a conversation she might mix in a your cute so you know she's attracted....It's a much safer word than sexy or stud Those other words make people think of sex lol
Guys call girls cute all the time when meeting first in public. Girl wont be offended if you say hey "Cutie etc.. sexy, hottie, etc thats a different story
Same thing for girls....Cute is just a safe word. Cute pretty much means handsome these days. Its a safe way for somebody to compliment you and show interest without going over the top using words like sexy, hottie etc
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Look don't listen to anyone who tells you otherwise, just take it as a complement! If you don't have anything to say, how about "thanks"? I used to always be called cute, but I was too damn insecure about it and I couldn't see that these girls were INTERESTED in me. I was thinking the same as you "cute? what do they mean by cute?"
Hell I've been called 'pretty' by lots of girls. At first I was like WTF and you guys might come up with something like "oh you must be femenine, she thinks of you as a girlfriend". No, no, just no. Each one of these girls was interested in me. They thought I was 'hot' but a word like that is too up front. Maybe you aren't the 'hot sexy' guy but they are still interested. Just like how we can really like a cute girl but not see her as sexy. Semantics.
Just take it as a complement. If you are good at it try some c/f.
Hell I've been called 'pretty' by lots of girls. At first I was like WTF and you guys might come up with something like "oh you must be femenine, she thinks of you as a girlfriend". No, no, just no. Each one of these girls was interested in me. They thought I was 'hot' but a word like that is too up front. Maybe you aren't the 'hot sexy' guy but they are still interested. Just like how we can really like a cute girl but not see her as sexy. Semantics.
Just take it as a complement. If you are good at it try some c/f.
ARrocket
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SinJester said:
Yeah, I agree. Dude, cute is a compliment! And C&F is the way to go
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Learn to take a compliment gracefully. Its a very masculine thing to do. And don't be afraid to return one now and again.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Actually, this doesn't mean anything. Escalate things and see what really means. Do it in mass, with a lot of girls before you come up with the conclusion.Create Reality said:
I don't think girls think too much about the connotations of words they use unless they are deliberately being nasty. In fact, the specific words girls use are often irrelevant. Girls primarily communicate feelings. If you want to really know what she means, try and learn to tap into the feelings she's communicating. "You're cute", to me at least, sounds like a compliment; she's communicating a feeling - that you're good looking - and is thus interested in you. Specific words don't matter. She could even compliment in item of your clothing. All irrelevant. It's the feelings she's feeling that matter.