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who am i to argue with that? whats a good way to play the cute angle?
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
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She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
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I like to approach this in a more humble manner and simply say "I bet you say that to every guy".
This all depends on your personality. Odds are they're taking your attitude and demeanor into account when they say that so whatever you're doing it's working.
If you're a funny guy, say something funny. If you're cool, say something cool. Sarcastic, sarcastic. You get the idea.
If you're a funny guy, say something funny. If you're cool, say something cool. Sarcastic, sarcastic. You get the idea.
LoneSilver
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No offence as a man I don't want a girl telling me I am cute that word means pretty when a girls says it to a guy to me cute belongs to a kitten or a puppy...
I'd prefer a lady to say something like your very sexy, masculine or manly not cute..If a girl told me I was cute I would properly have a discussion about her choice of words I don't think I care to be seen as neutered in the eyes of the woman I am going to screw
LoneSilver
I'd prefer a lady to say something like your very sexy, masculine or manly not cute..If a girl told me I was cute I would properly have a discussion about her choice of words I don't think I care to be seen as neutered in the eyes of the woman I am going to screw
LoneSilver
No offence as a man I don't want a girl telling me I am cute that word means pretty when a girls says it to a guy to me cute belongs to a kitten or a puppy
"Cute" is just a safe word people use when flirting. If you bump into a girl at the grocery store and strike up a conversation she might mix in a your cute so you know she's attracted....It's a much safer word than sexy or stud Those other words make people think of sex lol
Guys call girls cute all the time when meeting first in public. Girl wont be offended if you say hey "Cutie etc.. sexy, hottie, etc thats a different story
Same thing for girls....Cute is just a safe word. Cute pretty much means handsome these days. Its a safe way for somebody to compliment you and show interest without going over the top using words like sexy, hottie etc
"Cute" is just a safe word people use when flirting. If you bump into a girl at the grocery store and strike up a conversation she might mix in a your cute so you know she's attracted....It's a much safer word than sexy or stud Those other words make people think of sex lol
Guys call girls cute all the time when meeting first in public. Girl wont be offended if you say hey "Cutie etc.. sexy, hottie, etc thats a different story
Same thing for girls....Cute is just a safe word. Cute pretty much means handsome these days. Its a safe way for somebody to compliment you and show interest without going over the top using words like sexy, hottie etc
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Look don't listen to anyone who tells you otherwise, just take it as a complement! If you don't have anything to say, how about "thanks"? I used to always be called cute, but I was too damn insecure about it and I couldn't see that these girls were INTERESTED in me. I was thinking the same as you "cute? what do they mean by cute?"
Hell I've been called 'pretty' by lots of girls. At first I was like WTF and you guys might come up with something like "oh you must be femenine, she thinks of you as a girlfriend". No, no, just no. Each one of these girls was interested in me. They thought I was 'hot' but a word like that is too up front. Maybe you aren't the 'hot sexy' guy but they are still interested. Just like how we can really like a cute girl but not see her as sexy. Semantics.
Just take it as a complement. If you are good at it try some c/f.
Hell I've been called 'pretty' by lots of girls. At first I was like WTF and you guys might come up with something like "oh you must be femenine, she thinks of you as a girlfriend". No, no, just no. Each one of these girls was interested in me. They thought I was 'hot' but a word like that is too up front. Maybe you aren't the 'hot sexy' guy but they are still interested. Just like how we can really like a cute girl but not see her as sexy. Semantics.
Just take it as a complement. If you are good at it try some c/f.
ARrocket
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SinJester said:
Yeah, I agree. Dude, cute is a compliment! And C&F is the way to go
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Learn to take a compliment gracefully. Its a very masculine thing to do. And don't be afraid to return one now and again.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Actually, this doesn't mean anything. Escalate things and see what really means. Do it in mass, with a lot of girls before you come up with the conclusion.Create Reality said:
I don't think girls think too much about the connotations of words they use unless they are deliberately being nasty. In fact, the specific words girls use are often irrelevant. Girls primarily communicate feelings. If you want to really know what she means, try and learn to tap into the feelings she's communicating. "You're cute", to me at least, sounds like a compliment; she's communicating a feeling - that you're good looking - and is thus interested in you. Specific words don't matter. She could even compliment in item of your clothing. All irrelevant. It's the feelings she's feeling that matter.