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who am i to argue with that? whats a good way to play the cute angle?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
females say i am cute
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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I like to approach this in a more humble manner and simply say "I bet you say that to every guy".
This all depends on your personality. Odds are they're taking your attitude and demeanor into account when they say that so whatever you're doing it's working.
If you're a funny guy, say something funny. If you're cool, say something cool. Sarcastic, sarcastic. You get the idea.
If you're a funny guy, say something funny. If you're cool, say something cool. Sarcastic, sarcastic. You get the idea.
LoneSilver
Master Don Juan
No offence as a man I don't want a girl telling me I am cute that word means pretty when a girls says it to a guy to me cute belongs to a kitten or a puppy...
I'd prefer a lady to say something like your very sexy, masculine or manly not cute..If a girl told me I was cute I would properly have a discussion about her choice of words I don't think I care to be seen as neutered in the eyes of the woman I am going to screw
LoneSilver
I'd prefer a lady to say something like your very sexy, masculine or manly not cute..If a girl told me I was cute I would properly have a discussion about her choice of words I don't think I care to be seen as neutered in the eyes of the woman I am going to screw
LoneSilver
No offence as a man I don't want a girl telling me I am cute that word means pretty when a girls says it to a guy to me cute belongs to a kitten or a puppy
"Cute" is just a safe word people use when flirting. If you bump into a girl at the grocery store and strike up a conversation she might mix in a your cute so you know she's attracted....It's a much safer word than sexy or stud Those other words make people think of sex lol
Guys call girls cute all the time when meeting first in public. Girl wont be offended if you say hey "Cutie etc.. sexy, hottie, etc thats a different story
Same thing for girls....Cute is just a safe word. Cute pretty much means handsome these days. Its a safe way for somebody to compliment you and show interest without going over the top using words like sexy, hottie etc
"Cute" is just a safe word people use when flirting. If you bump into a girl at the grocery store and strike up a conversation she might mix in a your cute so you know she's attracted....It's a much safer word than sexy or stud Those other words make people think of sex lol
Guys call girls cute all the time when meeting first in public. Girl wont be offended if you say hey "Cutie etc.. sexy, hottie, etc thats a different story
Same thing for girls....Cute is just a safe word. Cute pretty much means handsome these days. Its a safe way for somebody to compliment you and show interest without going over the top using words like sexy, hottie etc
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Look don't listen to anyone who tells you otherwise, just take it as a complement! If you don't have anything to say, how about "thanks"? I used to always be called cute, but I was too damn insecure about it and I couldn't see that these girls were INTERESTED in me. I was thinking the same as you "cute? what do they mean by cute?"
Hell I've been called 'pretty' by lots of girls. At first I was like WTF and you guys might come up with something like "oh you must be femenine, she thinks of you as a girlfriend". No, no, just no. Each one of these girls was interested in me. They thought I was 'hot' but a word like that is too up front. Maybe you aren't the 'hot sexy' guy but they are still interested. Just like how we can really like a cute girl but not see her as sexy. Semantics.
Just take it as a complement. If you are good at it try some c/f.
Hell I've been called 'pretty' by lots of girls. At first I was like WTF and you guys might come up with something like "oh you must be femenine, she thinks of you as a girlfriend". No, no, just no. Each one of these girls was interested in me. They thought I was 'hot' but a word like that is too up front. Maybe you aren't the 'hot sexy' guy but they are still interested. Just like how we can really like a cute girl but not see her as sexy. Semantics.
Just take it as a complement. If you are good at it try some c/f.
ARrocket
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SinJester said:
Yeah, I agree. Dude, cute is a compliment! And C&F is the way to go
BadsnakeUK
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Learn to take a compliment gracefully. Its a very masculine thing to do. And don't be afraid to return one now and again.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
darkme_legendary
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Actually, this doesn't mean anything. Escalate things and see what really means. Do it in mass, with a lot of girls before you come up with the conclusion.Create Reality said:
I don't think girls think too much about the connotations of words they use unless they are deliberately being nasty. In fact, the specific words girls use are often irrelevant. Girls primarily communicate feelings. If you want to really know what she means, try and learn to tap into the feelings she's communicating. "You're cute", to me at least, sounds like a compliment; she's communicating a feeling - that you're good looking - and is thus interested in you. Specific words don't matter. She could even compliment in item of your clothing. All irrelevant. It's the feelings she's feeling that matter.