Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
All taken care of.
Should I call her tomorrow or should I wait three days?
Should I call her tomorrow or should I wait three days?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
female virgin asking how to find a guy to have sex with me
- Thread starter samsie1
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
trolls gunna troll.
your problem isn't sleeping with a guy, it's your standards. you want your first time to be with some 10. it ain't going to happen.
just go on to POF and pick a guy you like and fook him. it's not that hard. don't even bother telling him your a virgin if you think it's that bad.
first times ain't ever special.
my first time i waited 8 years to fook my oneitis ( google if you don't know what it means) girl. she stopped me half way threw because she was " drunk " and didn't want my first time to be with her drunk. ( was most likely because i told her to get on her knees i wanted her dogystyle )
few weeks later i was ****ing her in her clubbing dress just while she was getting redy for a party. now that was special
your problem isn't sleeping with a guy, it's your standards. you want your first time to be with some 10. it ain't going to happen.
just go on to POF and pick a guy you like and fook him. it's not that hard. don't even bother telling him your a virgin if you think it's that bad.
first times ain't ever special.
my first time i waited 8 years to fook my oneitis ( google if you don't know what it means) girl. she stopped me half way threw because she was " drunk " and didn't want my first time to be with her drunk. ( was most likely because i told her to get on her knees i wanted her dogystyle )
few weeks later i was ****ing her in her clubbing dress just while she was getting redy for a party. now that was special
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Get one of these suction cup dildos:
http://content1.adameve.com/cms/image/171634-171748-350x350.jpg
and bang the living piss out of it. Stick it on the dresser, the fridge, the coffee table, the garage door, a motorcycle headlamp, a car hood, you name it. Pop that cherry like a mofo. Go to town. Send that dildo back to Broadway! Make it look like a coffee stirrer. Learn to make yourself squirt like an inverted Old Faithful.
Jackpot, you aint't a virgin no'mo! Now go out and get yourself a good looking boy and show him what you learned. Virgin Shmirgin.
http://content1.adameve.com/cms/image/171634-171748-350x350.jpg
and bang the living piss out of it. Stick it on the dresser, the fridge, the coffee table, the garage door, a motorcycle headlamp, a car hood, you name it. Pop that cherry like a mofo. Go to town. Send that dildo back to Broadway! Make it look like a coffee stirrer. Learn to make yourself squirt like an inverted Old Faithful.
Jackpot, you aint't a virgin no'mo! Now go out and get yourself a good looking boy and show him what you learned. Virgin Shmirgin.
TheWolfMan
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 27, 2012
- Messages
- 193
- Reaction score
- 3
Agree with zinc, if all you're trying to do is lose the v-card why does it matter if the guys are low-substance? Sounds like you want your cake and eat it too, the ones you deem worthy will only do the deed if you get one lay in your system first. With that being said, I'd get the job done haha.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Mike32ct
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 22, 2007
- Messages
- 8,411
- Reaction score
- 5,176
They're afraid you'll be done in three seconds lol.
I'm sorry. I have no sympathy for female virgins. Women can get it anywhere, anytime. No excuses.
I'm sorry. I have no sympathy for female virgins. Women can get it anywhere, anytime. No excuses.
nismo-4
Moderator
- Joined
- Jan 31, 2005
- Messages
- 4,438
- Reaction score
- 1,142
What the f**k is this sh*t?
A woman having trouble getting sex? Ripley's won't even believe this sh*t!
Get the hell out of my damn court troll!
A woman having trouble getting sex? Ripley's won't even believe this sh*t!
Get the hell out of my damn court troll!
So you're a young, skinny(ish) virgin who wants non-commital sex, and you can't find it? You are either trolling your ass off or you are leaving out some crucial aspect of this story. This is an anonymous forum, no one will judge you, so there's no reason to filter your story.samsie1 said:
But I have a story that might help anyway. As a guy, I've refused to take a girl's virginity. I only had one date with this girl, who also happened to be 24. We were transients at the time, and I knew I wouldn't be able to date her again, and well, I guess I didn't want to sour her on all men by taking her virginity (even though she suggested it) and then abandoning her. Although she was pretty and smart and funny, she had a lousy family which lead to some emotional issues. So she hadn't been on many dates, and I feared that if I acted like the biggest jerk ever to her (by taking her virginity and giving her basically nothing in return), then she might really have trouble trusting men in the future. Who knows, maybe it was the wrong thing to do. Maybe I soured her further. But it made sense at the time.
So maybe that's the problem. You're dating nice guys with consciences. I've taken women's virginity before, but it was during year(s) long relationships and I didn't have a hint of guilt about it. So either find a sleazeball or get a relationship, I guess is what I'm saying.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
TITS or GTFO
SELL IT ON EBAY
SELL IT ON EBAY
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
since HOW is taking her cherry 'leaving her nothing? you think ANY WOMEN worry about that when it's YOUR first time? 
lol so why should you? as long as you practice safe sex, she loses nothing,, and if you are worth a crap, she'll have a great time.
lol so why should you? as long as you practice safe sex, she loses nothing,, and if you are worth a crap, she'll have a great time.Im not a troll.
Im not posting a pic because I dont want to get ripped apart and I see alot of people responding are mean. Im not a supermodel but I get told Im attractive alot so whatever...
I dont go for 10's. 10's tend to be royal *******s
By low quality I mean men that are extremely unattractive and I could not get turned on unless a bag was put over my head. Or ones that have STD's for sure. Im sorry I dont want a scummy guy to pop my cherry. That doesnt make me a horrible person depsite what you all say.
Thanks for not being helpful.
Im not posting a pic because I dont want to get ripped apart and I see alot of people responding are mean. Im not a supermodel but I get told Im attractive alot so whatever...
I dont go for 10's. 10's tend to be royal *******s
By low quality I mean men that are extremely unattractive and I could not get turned on unless a bag was put over my head. Or ones that have STD's for sure. Im sorry I dont want a scummy guy to pop my cherry. That doesnt make me a horrible person depsite what you all say.
Thanks for not being helpful.
You gotta realize what kind of crowd you're talking to. Everyone here knows that a woman having trouble finding someone to fvck is like having trouble finding oxygen in the air to breathe. Actually everyone on the planet should know that. If you really wanted to lose it and get it over with, you could do it in a heartbeat, provided you are somewhat attractive. It doesn't really matter though, guys bang ugly chicks all the time.
You don't want the scummy guys who have made advances, but you also don't want a 10 because you think they're aholes. That leaves everyone in between.
I'll reiterate what was said before, guys with good consciences won't do it unless you two are in a relationship because of the emotional damage that might incur.
So I will try to be helpful like some have been already, and say you basically have three options:
- lose your standards and jump on the next opportunity you get
- wait until you're in a LTR (long term relationship)
- practice by yourself, and lie about your virginity the next time a situation arises, or just lie period
The only thing stopping this is you. Women can get sex almost anytime they want. And people here aren't mean they just tell it like it is.
You don't want the scummy guys who have made advances, but you also don't want a 10 because you think they're aholes. That leaves everyone in between.
I'll reiterate what was said before, guys with good consciences won't do it unless you two are in a relationship because of the emotional damage that might incur.
So I will try to be helpful like some have been already, and say you basically have three options:
- lose your standards and jump on the next opportunity you get
- wait until you're in a LTR (long term relationship)
- practice by yourself, and lie about your virginity the next time a situation arises, or just lie period
The only thing stopping this is you. Women can get sex almost anytime they want. And people here aren't mean they just tell it like it is.
I dont need a relationship but yeah I dont want it to be someone random. Someone I trust and feel comfortable with...yes.
I doubt Ill get attached. The first two guys I did everything but have sex with I lost interest in them...I mean I might like the guy I lose it to but itll be because I like him not because of sex.
I have a female friend who lost it to a random guy from a bar and she did not recommend that. She said men who are drunk perform poorly and he was aggressive and it hurt like hell.
I will look into the dildo thing but my gynocologist said that isnt the best way to break it and really a man's penis is the best way but I dunno
I doubt Ill get attached. The first two guys I did everything but have sex with I lost interest in them...I mean I might like the guy I lose it to but itll be because I like him not because of sex.
I have a female friend who lost it to a random guy from a bar and she did not recommend that. She said men who are drunk perform poorly and he was aggressive and it hurt like hell.
I will look into the dildo thing but my gynocologist said that isnt the best way to break it and really a man's penis is the best way but I dunno
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
Would a virgin girl really use such a crass term as "pop my cherry"?
OP, you're either a trailer trash hillbilly or a troll.
OP, you're either a trailer trash hillbilly or a troll.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mike32ct
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 22, 2007
- Messages
- 8,411
- Reaction score
- 5,176
Either find a decent looking guy friend or go online to a dating site.
Just tell the guy you're not looking for a serious relationship. Then drop the virginity thing one or two dates later.
Bar or club is not recommended.
Just tell the guy you're not looking for a serious relationship. Then drop the virginity thing one or two dates later.
Bar or club is not recommended.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I'm sorry I failed to pop you. I didn't realize I still had it folded in half.samsie1 said:
Care to try again sexy??
sexyfaceme
Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 10, 2011
- Messages
- 47
- Reaction score
- 1
Comeon! if out of so many DJs all around the world cannot help her its a shame.
Dont know what gives people permission to be mean on the internet.
Dont help her but atleast dont attack.
Dont know what gives people permission to be mean on the internet.
Dont help her but atleast dont attack.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
There is no way this is not a troll. So why are you bothered about being nice?sexyfaceme said:
You are a fool.
Mr.Fantastic
Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 15, 2006
- Messages
- 198
- Reaction score
- 1
floydb25 said:
read post number 8 from 'thewolfman' in this thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1981836#post1981836
this female virgin turnoff thing is probably more common that we all think.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.