Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
All taken care of.
Should I call her tomorrow or should I wait three days?
Should I call her tomorrow or should I wait three days?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
So you're a young, skinny(ish) virgin who wants non-commital sex, and you can't find it? You are either trolling your ass off or you are leaving out some crucial aspect of this story. This is an anonymous forum, no one will judge you, so there's no reason to filter your story.samsie1 said:Troll??? I am asking online because my girlfriends are no good with this they say just wait and find the right guy but I am tired of waiting and doesnt seem they are too many good guys out there.
So I should lie? To the guy who said he'd take it from me how would you want a girl to tell you? Beforehand or right before sex?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm sorry I failed to pop you. I didn't realize I still had it folded in half.samsie1 said:I will look into the dildo thing but my gynocologist said that isnt the best way to break it and really a man's penis is the best way but I dunno
There is no way this is not a troll. So why are you bothered about being nice?sexyfaceme said:Comeon! if out of so many DJs all around the world cannot help her its a shame.
Dont know what gives people permission to be mean on the internet.
Dont help her but atleast dont attack.
floydb25 said:I dont think this is a troll, or at least the scenerio is very real. Dont know what I can say to help, but you sound naive and inexperienced. Prepare to get corrupted, and not get what you want... Especially if you hook up with the charming player types. Also, the men here are bitter *******s (hence being here), so dont expect any help. Probably better off somewhere else. :cheer:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.