So I had this two day F marathon with this girl I met last week. It was pretty incredible. I feel like my mind is scrambled, I had the day off work to take care of some shyt, but all I do is think about this girl. My game was really tight when I got her in bed, but now that she has rocked my world, I feel like the tables are turned. Yesterday I called her, she called me back on the phone, and we talked for a long time. I probably could have told her to come over or something but honestly I need a couple of days to rest up after last weekend. It is only a feeling I get, but I feel like she may be losing interest slightly. Or maybe it is normal to go through a slight depression/feeling of being with someone? I don't know. I feel like I need to go out and game again, get back into my life and take care of shyt.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Feeling vulnerable after sex
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
NotaNewbie
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You're getting too attached.. leave..
apocalypse later
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Christ, pull back. You sound like you may have already ruined it. When you have sex with a girl, you aren't supposed to feel that she just helped you out, it's supposed to be the opposite. So get through this vulnerable mindset, pull back, and get your game back.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If you're still talking to her that must mean you want a relationship with her. I think you feel a little down because you've got what you wanted with her and you dont have anything to look forward to. Im guessing its because you're putting too much emphasis on getting laid and not setting other goals for youself.
You asked her if she loved you???? What the hell were you thinking? Im gonna go on a limb and say you ruined it right there. Next time, be cool about it. Dont show any attachment, even if you have it. Dont let a chick fvck the DJ out of you and expose the AFC underneath, or you wont get any repeats. I've learned this the hard way, when I was younger.
Love takes more time mateYou asked her if she loved you???? What the hell were you thinking? Im gonna go on a limb and say you ruined it right there. Next time, be cool about it. Dont show any attachment, even if you have it. Dont let a chick fvck the DJ out of you and expose the AFC underneath, or you wont get any repeats.
ManiacJack
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Nah if he said do you love me, although it's hardly ever a good idea, and she said no or something, reply as if you are relieved she isn't getting too attatched to you... Of course, no playschool "good I never liked you anyway," replies... Something witty that will hopefully make her laugh...
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Wow. Well, this shows that sex sucks then, cause if it is so great, then why would you feel vulnerable? I thought guys were to have testosterone spikes and women felt vulnerable due to the release of some cuddling hormone, not the other way around. This makes me feel good that I'm still a virgin, since I never felt vulnerable after I had sex.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.