So I had this two day F marathon with this girl I met last week. It was pretty incredible. I feel like my mind is scrambled, I had the day off work to take care of some shyt, but all I do is think about this girl. My game was really tight when I got her in bed, but now that she has rocked my world, I feel like the tables are turned. Yesterday I called her, she called me back on the phone, and we talked for a long time. I probably could have told her to come over or something but honestly I need a couple of days to rest up after last weekend. It is only a feeling I get, but I feel like she may be losing interest slightly. Or maybe it is normal to go through a slight depression/feeling of being with someone? I don't know. I feel like I need to go out and game again, get back into my life and take care of shyt.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Feeling vulnerable after sex
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
NotaNewbie
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You're getting too attached.. leave..
apocalypse later
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Christ, pull back. You sound like you may have already ruined it. When you have sex with a girl, you aren't supposed to feel that she just helped you out, it's supposed to be the opposite. So get through this vulnerable mindset, pull back, and get your game back.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
If you're still talking to her that must mean you want a relationship with her. I think you feel a little down because you've got what you wanted with her and you dont have anything to look forward to. Im guessing its because you're putting too much emphasis on getting laid and not setting other goals for youself.
You asked her if she loved you???? What the hell were you thinking? Im gonna go on a limb and say you ruined it right there. Next time, be cool about it. Dont show any attachment, even if you have it. Dont let a chick fvck the DJ out of you and expose the AFC underneath, or you wont get any repeats. I've learned this the hard way, when I was younger.
Love takes more time mateYou asked her if she loved you???? What the hell were you thinking? Im gonna go on a limb and say you ruined it right there. Next time, be cool about it. Dont show any attachment, even if you have it. Dont let a chick fvck the DJ out of you and expose the AFC underneath, or you wont get any repeats.
ManiacJack
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Nah if he said do you love me, although it's hardly ever a good idea, and she said no or something, reply as if you are relieved she isn't getting too attatched to you... Of course, no playschool "good I never liked you anyway," replies... Something witty that will hopefully make her laugh...
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Wow. Well, this shows that sex sucks then, cause if it is so great, then why would you feel vulnerable? I thought guys were to have testosterone spikes and women felt vulnerable due to the release of some cuddling hormone, not the other way around. This makes me feel good that I'm still a virgin, since I never felt vulnerable after I had sex.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.