So I had this two day F marathon with this girl I met last week. It was pretty incredible. I feel like my mind is scrambled, I had the day off work to take care of some shyt, but all I do is think about this girl. My game was really tight when I got her in bed, but now that she has rocked my world, I feel like the tables are turned. Yesterday I called her, she called me back on the phone, and we talked for a long time. I probably could have told her to come over or something but honestly I need a couple of days to rest up after last weekend. It is only a feeling I get, but I feel like she may be losing interest slightly. Or maybe it is normal to go through a slight depression/feeling of being with someone? I don't know. I feel like I need to go out and game again, get back into my life and take care of shyt.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
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You're getting too attached.. leave..
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Christ, pull back. You sound like you may have already ruined it. When you have sex with a girl, you aren't supposed to feel that she just helped you out, it's supposed to be the opposite. So get through this vulnerable mindset, pull back, and get your game back.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
If you're still talking to her that must mean you want a relationship with her. I think you feel a little down because you've got what you wanted with her and you dont have anything to look forward to. Im guessing its because you're putting too much emphasis on getting laid and not setting other goals for youself.
You asked her if she loved you???? What the hell were you thinking? Im gonna go on a limb and say you ruined it right there. Next time, be cool about it. Dont show any attachment, even if you have it. Dont let a chick fvck the DJ out of you and expose the AFC underneath, or you wont get any repeats. I've learned this the hard way, when I was younger.
Love takes more time mateYou asked her if she loved you???? What the hell were you thinking? Im gonna go on a limb and say you ruined it right there. Next time, be cool about it. Dont show any attachment, even if you have it. Dont let a chick fvck the DJ out of you and expose the AFC underneath, or you wont get any repeats.
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Nah if he said do you love me, although it's hardly ever a good idea, and she said no or something, reply as if you are relieved she isn't getting too attatched to you... Of course, no playschool "good I never liked you anyway," replies... Something witty that will hopefully make her laugh...
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Wow. Well, this shows that sex sucks then, cause if it is so great, then why would you feel vulnerable? I thought guys were to have testosterone spikes and women felt vulnerable due to the release of some cuddling hormone, not the other way around. This makes me feel good that I'm still a virgin, since I never felt vulnerable after I had sex.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.