Feeling vulnerable after sex

[sexxyback]

So I had this two day F marathon with this girl I met last week. It was pretty incredible. I feel like my mind is scrambled, I had the day off work to take care of some shyt, but all I do is think about this girl. My game was really tight when I got her in bed, but now that she has rocked my world, I feel like the tables are turned. Yesterday I called her, she called me back on the phone, and we talked for a long time. I probably could have told her to come over or something but honestly I need a couple of days to rest up after last weekend. It is only a feeling I get, but I feel like she may be losing interest slightly. Or maybe it is normal to go through a slight depression/feeling of being with someone? I don't know. I feel like I need to go out and game again, get back into my life and take care of shyt.

 

[NotaNewbie]

You're getting too attached.. leave..

 

[sexxyback]

i asked her if she loved me. she told me it's too soon to know. i wonder if she is twisting that question around to mean, 'i love you' instead of 'do you love me?'

 

[Redux]

Pull the hell back.

 

[apocalypse later]

Christ, pull back. You sound like you may have already ruined it. When you have sex with a girl, you aren't supposed to feel that she just helped you out, it's supposed to be the opposite. So get through this vulnerable mindset, pull back, and get your game back.

 

[n00bPimp]

If you're still talking to her that must mean you want a relationship with her. I think you feel a little down because you've got what you wanted with her and you dont have anything to look forward to. Im guessing its because you're putting too much emphasis on getting laid and not setting other goals for youself.

 

[woods]

You asked her if she loved you???? What the hell were you thinking? Im gonna go on a limb and say you ruined it right there. Next time, be cool about it. Dont show any attachment, even if you have it. Dont let a chick fvck the DJ out of you and expose the AFC underneath, or you wont get any repeats. I've learned this the hard way, when I was younger.

 

[Holland]

You asked her if she loved you???? What the hell were you thinking? Im gonna go on a limb and say you ruined it right there. Next time, be cool about it. Dont show any attachment, even if you have it. Dont let a chick fvck the DJ out of you and expose the AFC underneath, or you wont get any repeats.

Love takes more time mate

 

[ManiacJack]

Nah if he said do you love me, although it's hardly ever a good idea, and she said no or something, reply as if you are relieved she isn't getting too attatched to you... Of course, no playschool "good I never liked you anyway," replies... Something witty that will hopefully make her laugh...

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Wow. Well, this shows that sex sucks then, cause if it is so great, then why would you feel vulnerable? I thought guys were to have testosterone spikes and women felt vulnerable due to the release of some cuddling hormone, not the other way around. This makes me feel good that I'm still a virgin, since I never felt vulnerable after I had sex.