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Don Juan
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Excellent post, as usual. Kontrollerx
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DrD77 said:i think kontroller x is a dumbass. i think he has dealt with the wrong kind of woman because there are women out there that will love you genuinely. **** you kontroller x and stop trying to pollute our minds. why don't you guys just suck his d!ck.
slaog said:If you go crab fishing don't expect to catch a salmon. There are plenty of quality women out there but they're not going to be found in clubs late at night.
I also agree that if you go around not trusting women you'll end up with untrustworthy women.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Indeed and it works the other way too. Women who don't trust you are usually the ones not to be trusted themselves.Sandow said:Very true but I will never point the finger at someone else, I will almost always look at myself first. I believe people create their reality and future based on their actions. If she cheated or broke up with you then there was a reason for that. Perhaps there was an area in the relationship you are lackling in. Cause and Effect. or she's just a *****. lol. whatever we can talk about this forever....
Exactly what I was trying to say.slaog said:If you go crab fishing don't expect to catch a salmon. There are plenty of quality women out there but they're not going to be found in clubs late at night.
I also agree that if you go around not trusting women you'll end up with untrustworthy women.