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Excellent post, as usual. Kontrollerx
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
feeling sh!tty about women
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DrD77 said:
I believed in love when I was 19 too!
I still get sickened when I think about how my last real gf was not only cheating on me every 5 minutes, but actually was a HIGH CLASS PROSTITUTE behind my back, when she was claiming she loved me unconditionally, and would NEVER cheat. Granted, I blame myself, and cant quite forgive myself for what I let myself go through, and I dont think I can EVER trust a woman again.
I feel like my soul has been fvcking poisoned, and this happened THREE years ago! Yet, I try to maintain a positive outlook, but whenever I watch chicks be scandalous, or even read about it, I boil inside. KX is awesome, and inspiring, and if you dont think so now; you will eventually! I used to think LMS was a jerkoff, but I'm enlightened now.
If you go crab fishing don't expect to catch a salmon. There are plenty of quality women out there but they're not going to be found in clubs late at night.
I also agree that if you go around not trusting women you'll end up with untrustworthy women.
I also agree that if you go around not trusting women you'll end up with untrustworthy women.
slaog said:
Very true but I will never point the finger at someone else, I will almost always look at myself first. I believe people create their reality and future based on their actions. If she cheated or broke up with you then there was a reason for that. Perhaps there was an area in the relationship you are lackling in. Cause and Effect. or she's just a *****. lol. whatever we can talk about this forever....
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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LOL... its not this complicated people.. we are only animals.. dont let your big brain fool you into thinking you are something more.
Dont expect loyalty.. ever... give it if you want but dont expect it..ever. even when you are married.
Dont waste time blaming anything except our natural human nature. Society tries to civilize that which cannot be civilized.. all that happens is more lying more hiding and more hypocrisy
Dont expect loyalty.. ever... give it if you want but dont expect it..ever. even when you are married.
Dont waste time blaming anything except our natural human nature. Society tries to civilize that which cannot be civilized.. all that happens is more lying more hiding and more hypocrisy