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Don Juan
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Excellent post, as usual. Kontrollerx
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DrD77 said:i think kontroller x is a dumbass. i think he has dealt with the wrong kind of woman because there are women out there that will love you genuinely. **** you kontroller x and stop trying to pollute our minds. why don't you guys just suck his d!ck.
slaog said:If you go crab fishing don't expect to catch a salmon. There are plenty of quality women out there but they're not going to be found in clubs late at night.
I also agree that if you go around not trusting women you'll end up with untrustworthy women.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Indeed and it works the other way too. Women who don't trust you are usually the ones not to be trusted themselves.Sandow said:Very true but I will never point the finger at someone else, I will almost always look at myself first. I believe people create their reality and future based on their actions. If she cheated or broke up with you then there was a reason for that. Perhaps there was an area in the relationship you are lackling in. Cause and Effect. or she's just a *****. lol. whatever we can talk about this forever....
Exactly what I was trying to say.slaog said:If you go crab fishing don't expect to catch a salmon. There are plenty of quality women out there but they're not going to be found in clubs late at night.
I also agree that if you go around not trusting women you'll end up with untrustworthy women.