"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KneghtRyder

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..frustrated at this same shyt happening twice ..

..this hb9 met at the train station..she's and exchange student...

she began by asking me for directions..so i do and then we part. I end up sitting at the table she just left .. later she comes back, and asks if her and her friend could join me ..but there are other desks there not tables I have the last one..she didn't have to be so upfront.

okay, she starts revealing tons of info along with her friend. shes from here..how she met her friend.shes talkative and friendly to me..and looking at me.. like a stupid i ask for her email instead of number.. and then she never responds to the email its been a day already.

This is the second time , same type of thing that has happened to me in the last sarging...
. I can't ****'n believe my luck. Why mE ??!!@! Is this shyt just bad luck or low IL , I have no idea what i did wrong.

Perhaps I could have raised her IL so that she's having fun, and not so dull boring convo so she'll reply to the email..

Perhaps I could have began by asking her for her number.

Perhaps I could have dressed a bit better..

Perhaps its my looks weren't so great for her..

I don't know !
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FIRST RULE OF AN EFFECTIVE SARGE!!! ASK FOR THE NUMBER!!!

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Hmm, you're not giving much details about the conversation, but it sounds like they clearly started with high IL, and you screwed something up.

The one bit of advice I can offer from what you wrote is get the phone number instead of (or in addition to) the e-mail.

Your clothes weren't the problem, she approached you twice. Also did you e-mail her right away? Better to probably wait at least a day or two.
 
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