"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KneghtRyder

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..frustrated at this same shyt happening twice ..

..this hb9 met at the train station..she's and exchange student...

she began by asking me for directions..so i do and then we part. I end up sitting at the table she just left .. later she comes back, and asks if her and her friend could join me ..but there are other desks there not tables I have the last one..she didn't have to be so upfront.

okay, she starts revealing tons of info along with her friend. shes from here..how she met her friend.shes talkative and friendly to me..and looking at me.. like a stupid i ask for her email instead of number.. and then she never responds to the email its been a day already.

This is the second time , same type of thing that has happened to me in the last sarging...
. I can't ****'n believe my luck. Why mE ??!!@! Is this shyt just bad luck or low IL , I have no idea what i did wrong.

Perhaps I could have raised her IL so that she's having fun, and not so dull boring convo so she'll reply to the email..

Perhaps I could have began by asking her for her number.

Perhaps I could have dressed a bit better..

Perhaps its my looks weren't so great for her..

I don't know !
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FIRST RULE OF AN EFFECTIVE SARGE!!! ASK FOR THE NUMBER!!!

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Hmm, you're not giving much details about the conversation, but it sounds like they clearly started with high IL, and you screwed something up.

The one bit of advice I can offer from what you wrote is get the phone number instead of (or in addition to) the e-mail.

Your clothes weren't the problem, she approached you twice. Also did you e-mail her right away? Better to probably wait at least a day or two.
 
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