"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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KneghtRyder

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..frustrated at this same shyt happening twice ..

..this hb9 met at the train station..she's and exchange student...

she began by asking me for directions..so i do and then we part. I end up sitting at the table she just left .. later she comes back, and asks if her and her friend could join me ..but there are other desks there not tables I have the last one..she didn't have to be so upfront.

okay, she starts revealing tons of info along with her friend. shes from here..how she met her friend.shes talkative and friendly to me..and looking at me.. like a stupid i ask for her email instead of number.. and then she never responds to the email its been a day already.

This is the second time , same type of thing that has happened to me in the last sarging...
. I can't ****'n believe my luck. Why mE ??!!@! Is this shyt just bad luck or low IL , I have no idea what i did wrong.

Perhaps I could have raised her IL so that she's having fun, and not so dull boring convo so she'll reply to the email..

Perhaps I could have began by asking her for her number.

Perhaps I could have dressed a bit better..

Perhaps its my looks weren't so great for her..

I don't know !
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FIRST RULE OF AN EFFECTIVE SARGE!!! ASK FOR THE NUMBER!!!

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Hmm, you're not giving much details about the conversation, but it sounds like they clearly started with high IL, and you screwed something up.

The one bit of advice I can offer from what you wrote is get the phone number instead of (or in addition to) the e-mail.

Your clothes weren't the problem, she approached you twice. Also did you e-mail her right away? Better to probably wait at least a day or two.
 
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