"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Favorite Videogame Character?
- Thread starter Arakune
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
and how do you give rep points? I wanna give you a positive one
Piranha, i think I found your boy
is this your favorite?
http://images.wikia.com/kirby/en/images/thumb/b/ba/Fattywhale.jpg/800px-Fattywhale.jpg
he's one of my favorite bosses lol
Luthor Rex
Master Don Juan
The supermutant who would be your friend in Fallout 3.
Pretty much the whole cast of Planescape: Torment.
Admiral Towlyn from Wing Commander (played by Malcolm McDowell)
Sure there are others, but this is what comes to mind.
KontrollerX
Master Don Juan
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Pious Augustus.
He's the Skeleton character in this video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d7n1xQ_ef5Y
Well actually Pious is tied with The Pint Sized Slasher shown in this video for me heh heh...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Desert Fox
Master Don Juan
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AlexTheGreat
Senior Don Juan
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WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Click the scales underneath the nameArakune said:and how do you give rep points? I wanna give you a positive one
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.