"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Favorite "Type" of Lady?

Favorite Type of Lady

  • Asian (Yellow)

    Votes: 3 11.1%
  • Hispanic (Brown)

    Votes: 5 18.5%
  • African (Black)

    Votes: 2 7.4%
  • Caucasian (White)

    Votes: 13 48.1%
  • Other (Animals?)

    Votes: 4 14.8%

  • Total voters
    27

Alkali

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Wondering what kind of preferences the majority of people have on this site.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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DJVladdy

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ChrizZ described it better than i ever could have lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ValleyDJing

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You should've made the poll public, otherwise, you'll have people who just want to clown around...I learned that the hard way with my money poll. According to my poll, 35% of people on sosuave were millionaires.
 

Serialized3

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This could have been an interesting thread before you put up the thoughtless, arbitrary "racial type" poll. :rolleyes:
 

Ace of Flames

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Technically, "brown people" usually refers to Indians and people from that area of the world. That means there are two errors in your poll. Wrong 'color' for one type, and total exclusion of another. Sad day.

Anyways, I vote Latina all the way!
 

Alkali

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Elaborate serialized. There are only ten options.

I couldn't ask the for prefered hair, skin, heights, eyes, but, lips, teeth...\

There are only ten options.

There is nothing racist about being more attracted to Asians than to Africans (or is there?)
 

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Alkali said:
Elaborate serialized. There are only ten options.

I couldn't ask the for prefered hair, skin, heights, eyes, but, lips, teeth...\

There are only ten options.

There is nothing racist about being more attracted to Asians than to Africans (or is there?)
I'm not saying it's racist, athough race is somewhat of a thoughtless way to categorize people. Also, I don't see ten options.

I was going to come back and post what sort of physical traits (ex. tall) or personalty traits (ex. playful) that I found attractive in women.

But then you put the poll up and changed it into something that I don't tend to really think in terms of when I'm attracted to a woman. I mean, I might find a higher percentage of attractive women of a certain race more than another, but I've never thought "DAYUMN WHITE GIRLS ARE HELLA FLY" or anything like that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ChrizZ

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Call me a racist, but I only go for Caucasian chicks and some hispanic chicks. I don't feel attracted to any of the other races.
 

Serialized3

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ChrizZ said:
Call me a racist, but I only go for Caucasian chicks and some hispanic chicks. I don't feel attracted to any of the other races.
Yeah, but you're German, and we all know what they think about the volk... :crazy:
 

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Serialized3 said:
Yeah, but you're German, and we all know what they think about the volk... :crazy:
here we go with the generalizations again...
 

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I was kidding, maybe i should have put in the :p instead of the :crazy:. Of course all Germans aren't racists.





Just most of them. :p
 

ChrizZ

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Serialized3 said:
I was kidding, maybe i should have put in the :p instead of the :crazy:. Of course all Germans aren't racists. Just most of them. :p
that's better. Now go take a shower in the gas chamber lol, j/k
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alphamale1821

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I love latina and white chicks coming from a black guy. However i'll date any color if they are atractive and i can at least stand their personality.
 

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I was really disapointed when you refered to ladiies "types" as being their race. I was expecting a poll based on personality traits. Such as

traditional church lady
modern church lady
freespirit
flower child
thrill seeker
pack rat
couch potato
party girl
 

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yeah, that definitely would've been more interesting

I'd do it myself, but after 1400 posts I still haven't figured out how to make a poll.
 

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I'm most attracted to the features of Latinas, but am open to anything as long as she's cute. Only recently have I started finding Asian women attractive.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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