“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Favorite "Type" of Lady?

Favorite Type of Lady

  • Asian (Yellow)

    Votes: 3 11.1%
  • Hispanic (Brown)

    Votes: 5 18.5%
  • African (Black)

    Votes: 2 7.4%
  • Caucasian (White)

    Votes: 13 48.1%
  • Other (Animals?)

    Votes: 4 14.8%

  • Total voters
    27

Alkali

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Wondering what kind of preferences the majority of people have on this site.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJVladdy

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ChrizZ described it better than i ever could have lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ValleyDJing

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You should've made the poll public, otherwise, you'll have people who just want to clown around...I learned that the hard way with my money poll. According to my poll, 35% of people on sosuave were millionaires.
 

Serialized3

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This could have been an interesting thread before you put up the thoughtless, arbitrary "racial type" poll. :rolleyes:
 

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Technically, "brown people" usually refers to Indians and people from that area of the world. That means there are two errors in your poll. Wrong 'color' for one type, and total exclusion of another. Sad day.

Anyways, I vote Latina all the way!
 

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Elaborate serialized. There are only ten options.

I couldn't ask the for prefered hair, skin, heights, eyes, but, lips, teeth...\

There are only ten options.

There is nothing racist about being more attracted to Asians than to Africans (or is there?)
 

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Alkali said:
Elaborate serialized. There are only ten options.

I couldn't ask the for prefered hair, skin, heights, eyes, but, lips, teeth...\

There are only ten options.

There is nothing racist about being more attracted to Asians than to Africans (or is there?)
I'm not saying it's racist, athough race is somewhat of a thoughtless way to categorize people. Also, I don't see ten options.

I was going to come back and post what sort of physical traits (ex. tall) or personalty traits (ex. playful) that I found attractive in women.

But then you put the poll up and changed it into something that I don't tend to really think in terms of when I'm attracted to a woman. I mean, I might find a higher percentage of attractive women of a certain race more than another, but I've never thought "DAYUMN WHITE GIRLS ARE HELLA FLY" or anything like that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ChrizZ

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Call me a racist, but I only go for Caucasian chicks and some hispanic chicks. I don't feel attracted to any of the other races.
 

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ChrizZ said:
Call me a racist, but I only go for Caucasian chicks and some hispanic chicks. I don't feel attracted to any of the other races.
Yeah, but you're German, and we all know what they think about the volk... :crazy:
 

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Serialized3 said:
Yeah, but you're German, and we all know what they think about the volk... :crazy:
here we go with the generalizations again...
 

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I was kidding, maybe i should have put in the :p instead of the :crazy:. Of course all Germans aren't racists.





Just most of them. :p
 

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Serialized3 said:
I was kidding, maybe i should have put in the :p instead of the :crazy:. Of course all Germans aren't racists. Just most of them. :p
that's better. Now go take a shower in the gas chamber lol, j/k
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alphamale1821

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I love latina and white chicks coming from a black guy. However i'll date any color if they are atractive and i can at least stand their personality.
 

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I was really disapointed when you refered to ladiies "types" as being their race. I was expecting a poll based on personality traits. Such as

traditional church lady
modern church lady
freespirit
flower child
thrill seeker
pack rat
couch potato
party girl
 

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yeah, that definitely would've been more interesting

I'd do it myself, but after 1400 posts I still haven't figured out how to make a poll.
 

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I'm most attracted to the features of Latinas, but am open to anything as long as she's cute. Only recently have I started finding Asian women attractive.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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