"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Favorite "Type" of Lady?

Favorite Type of Lady

  • Asian (Yellow)

    Votes: 3 11.1%
  • Hispanic (Brown)

    Votes: 5 18.5%
  • African (Black)

    Votes: 2 7.4%
  • Caucasian (White)

    Votes: 13 48.1%
  • Other (Animals?)

    Votes: 4 14.8%

  • Total voters
    27

Alkali

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Wondering what kind of preferences the majority of people have on this site.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJVladdy

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ChrizZ described it better than i ever could have lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ValleyDJing

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You should've made the poll public, otherwise, you'll have people who just want to clown around...I learned that the hard way with my money poll. According to my poll, 35% of people on sosuave were millionaires.
 

Serialized3

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This could have been an interesting thread before you put up the thoughtless, arbitrary "racial type" poll. :rolleyes:
 

Ace of Flames

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Technically, "brown people" usually refers to Indians and people from that area of the world. That means there are two errors in your poll. Wrong 'color' for one type, and total exclusion of another. Sad day.

Anyways, I vote Latina all the way!
 

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Elaborate serialized. There are only ten options.

I couldn't ask the for prefered hair, skin, heights, eyes, but, lips, teeth...\

There are only ten options.

There is nothing racist about being more attracted to Asians than to Africans (or is there?)
 

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Alkali said:
Elaborate serialized. There are only ten options.

I couldn't ask the for prefered hair, skin, heights, eyes, but, lips, teeth...\

There are only ten options.

There is nothing racist about being more attracted to Asians than to Africans (or is there?)
I'm not saying it's racist, athough race is somewhat of a thoughtless way to categorize people. Also, I don't see ten options.

I was going to come back and post what sort of physical traits (ex. tall) or personalty traits (ex. playful) that I found attractive in women.

But then you put the poll up and changed it into something that I don't tend to really think in terms of when I'm attracted to a woman. I mean, I might find a higher percentage of attractive women of a certain race more than another, but I've never thought "DAYUMN WHITE GIRLS ARE HELLA FLY" or anything like that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ChrizZ

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Call me a racist, but I only go for Caucasian chicks and some hispanic chicks. I don't feel attracted to any of the other races.
 

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ChrizZ said:
Call me a racist, but I only go for Caucasian chicks and some hispanic chicks. I don't feel attracted to any of the other races.
Yeah, but you're German, and we all know what they think about the volk... :crazy:
 

ChrizZ

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Serialized3 said:
Yeah, but you're German, and we all know what they think about the volk... :crazy:
here we go with the generalizations again...
 

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I was kidding, maybe i should have put in the :p instead of the :crazy:. Of course all Germans aren't racists.





Just most of them. :p
 

ChrizZ

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Serialized3 said:
I was kidding, maybe i should have put in the :p instead of the :crazy:. Of course all Germans aren't racists. Just most of them. :p
that's better. Now go take a shower in the gas chamber lol, j/k
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alphamale1821

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I love latina and white chicks coming from a black guy. However i'll date any color if they are atractive and i can at least stand their personality.
 

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I was really disapointed when you refered to ladiies "types" as being their race. I was expecting a poll based on personality traits. Such as

traditional church lady
modern church lady
freespirit
flower child
thrill seeker
pack rat
couch potato
party girl
 

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yeah, that definitely would've been more interesting

I'd do it myself, but after 1400 posts I still haven't figured out how to make a poll.
 

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I'm most attracted to the features of Latinas, but am open to anything as long as she's cute. Only recently have I started finding Asian women attractive.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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