"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Favorite "Type" of Lady?

Favorite Type of Lady

  • Asian (Yellow)

    Votes: 3 11.1%
  • Hispanic (Brown)

    Votes: 5 18.5%
  • African (Black)

    Votes: 2 7.4%
  • Caucasian (White)

    Votes: 13 48.1%
  • Other (Animals?)

    Votes: 4 14.8%

  • Total voters
    27

Alkali

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Wondering what kind of preferences the majority of people have on this site.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJVladdy

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ChrizZ described it better than i ever could have lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ValleyDJing

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You should've made the poll public, otherwise, you'll have people who just want to clown around...I learned that the hard way with my money poll. According to my poll, 35% of people on sosuave were millionaires.
 

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This could have been an interesting thread before you put up the thoughtless, arbitrary "racial type" poll. :rolleyes:
 

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Technically, "brown people" usually refers to Indians and people from that area of the world. That means there are two errors in your poll. Wrong 'color' for one type, and total exclusion of another. Sad day.

Anyways, I vote Latina all the way!
 

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Elaborate serialized. There are only ten options.

I couldn't ask the for prefered hair, skin, heights, eyes, but, lips, teeth...\

There are only ten options.

There is nothing racist about being more attracted to Asians than to Africans (or is there?)
 

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Alkali said:
Elaborate serialized. There are only ten options.

I couldn't ask the for prefered hair, skin, heights, eyes, but, lips, teeth...\

There are only ten options.

There is nothing racist about being more attracted to Asians than to Africans (or is there?)
I'm not saying it's racist, athough race is somewhat of a thoughtless way to categorize people. Also, I don't see ten options.

I was going to come back and post what sort of physical traits (ex. tall) or personalty traits (ex. playful) that I found attractive in women.

But then you put the poll up and changed it into something that I don't tend to really think in terms of when I'm attracted to a woman. I mean, I might find a higher percentage of attractive women of a certain race more than another, but I've never thought "DAYUMN WHITE GIRLS ARE HELLA FLY" or anything like that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ChrizZ

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Call me a racist, but I only go for Caucasian chicks and some hispanic chicks. I don't feel attracted to any of the other races.
 

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ChrizZ said:
Call me a racist, but I only go for Caucasian chicks and some hispanic chicks. I don't feel attracted to any of the other races.
Yeah, but you're German, and we all know what they think about the volk... :crazy:
 

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Serialized3 said:
Yeah, but you're German, and we all know what they think about the volk... :crazy:
here we go with the generalizations again...
 

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I was kidding, maybe i should have put in the :p instead of the :crazy:. Of course all Germans aren't racists.





Just most of them. :p
 

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Serialized3 said:
I was kidding, maybe i should have put in the :p instead of the :crazy:. Of course all Germans aren't racists. Just most of them. :p
that's better. Now go take a shower in the gas chamber lol, j/k
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I love latina and white chicks coming from a black guy. However i'll date any color if they are atractive and i can at least stand their personality.
 

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I was really disapointed when you refered to ladiies "types" as being their race. I was expecting a poll based on personality traits. Such as

traditional church lady
modern church lady
freespirit
flower child
thrill seeker
pack rat
couch potato
party girl
 

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yeah, that definitely would've been more interesting

I'd do it myself, but after 1400 posts I still haven't figured out how to make a poll.
 

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I'm most attracted to the features of Latinas, but am open to anything as long as she's cute. Only recently have I started finding Asian women attractive.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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