mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Yeah but he don't like fake ones. Some of us don't no matter how they "look".Well sh!t, she just slightly enlarged her bust size dude, she didn't die.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Yeah but he don't like fake ones. Some of us don't no matter how they "look".Well sh!t, she just slightly enlarged her bust size dude, she didn't die.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
(See above. About a 9. She is the most beautiful woman I've ever dated, though it's a matter of personal preference).Looks wise, what would you rate her at?
True, and this bugs me, but the surgery was 22 days after our first date. It's not exactly like she deceived me as much as went through with it. Will she really like the men who didn't like her when she had small boobs? She's already a gorgeous stripper. I don't imagine the competition will get any worse. She's already pretty much as hot as possible.@bigneil
Not bad at all...those are all before pics right? It looks like it from the bust you describe.
I have 2 pieces of advice I can offer.
1. Since she's already done this, just tell her you need to take them for a test drive. Maybe make a thing out of it where you try to get her to "convince" you to like the new bolt-ons.
2. To me, she did this for the attention. She already knew you liked small tits, yet she did it anyway. Over the course of the next year it seems likely she'll want to spend less time with you cause she wants to get all the mileage out of them that she can.
I have a preference for shorter women and I'm 6'3-4"ish like you and mostly muscle. I'd give her a solid 8. Small A cup to a decent small C I'm guessing which will look awesome. I have a propensity for a girl having a perfect smile otherwise my hotness scale drops for her.(See above. About a 9. She is the most beautiful woman I've ever dated, though it's a matter of personal preference).
What do you guys rate her? I hope low so there is more for me.
True, and this bugs me, but the surgery was 22 days after our first date. It's not exactly like she deceived me as much as went through with it. Will she really like the men who didn't like her when she had small boobs? She's already a gorgeous stripper. I don't imagine the competition will get any worse. She's already pretty much as hot as possible.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I work on graphics and camera technology plus I own a business so I can hire models for either hardware testing, film editing or advertising. All camera equipment and related expenses are deductible for tech companies. Girls love it when they get a real modeling job and can expense the dress, and they will bend over backwards to do their hair, et cetera. Few things provide such great feedback for photography and graphics as beautiful women. We automatically process hundreds of variables when we see them.What is this photography stuff, just out of curiousity? IIRC that is not a business. Is it just a hobby, or is it some sort of tool you use to engage women?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
"Rate my girl" sub-forum sounds better.maybe we should have a "rate my girl" thread?
I don't know her well, true. But note that nearly 9 months elapsed between when I met her and when I got her number. It was the fourth text that I said "Wait, didn't we meet before at a hotel where you worked?" By that point we had already met for lunch, kissed, and she (later confessed) she fell for me when I managed to pull off a 3 way kiss with her and an equally hot girl. We had 3 dinner dates in the 3 weeks prior to her getting a boob job, which was already scheduled and paid for. True, not enough to know her, but saying 3 dates in 9 months is misleading.8.
And I can see why she wanted a boob job.
She'll probably be an 8+ with a decent chest no problem.
But 3 dates over a 9 month period isn't long enough to judge someone's personality...Sutely you'd know this at 41. I suspect at this stage OP is just bored and trolling us hard.
This is a good idea if we can keep things anonymous. Hot or Not isn't good anymore, and I'd rather just have the opinions of 90% Trump supporters here."Rate my girl" sub-forum sounds better.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.