mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Yeah but he don't like fake ones. Some of us don't no matter how they "look".Well sh!t, she just slightly enlarged her bust size dude, she didn't die.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Yeah but he don't like fake ones. Some of us don't no matter how they "look".Well sh!t, she just slightly enlarged her bust size dude, she didn't die.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
(See above. About a 9. She is the most beautiful woman I've ever dated, though it's a matter of personal preference).Looks wise, what would you rate her at?
True, and this bugs me, but the surgery was 22 days after our first date. It's not exactly like she deceived me as much as went through with it. Will she really like the men who didn't like her when she had small boobs? She's already a gorgeous stripper. I don't imagine the competition will get any worse. She's already pretty much as hot as possible.@bigneil
Not bad at all...those are all before pics right? It looks like it from the bust you describe.
I have 2 pieces of advice I can offer.
1. Since she's already done this, just tell her you need to take them for a test drive. Maybe make a thing out of it where you try to get her to "convince" you to like the new bolt-ons.
2. To me, she did this for the attention. She already knew you liked small tits, yet she did it anyway. Over the course of the next year it seems likely she'll want to spend less time with you cause she wants to get all the mileage out of them that she can.
I have a preference for shorter women and I'm 6'3-4"ish like you and mostly muscle. I'd give her a solid 8. Small A cup to a decent small C I'm guessing which will look awesome. I have a propensity for a girl having a perfect smile otherwise my hotness scale drops for her.(See above. About a 9. She is the most beautiful woman I've ever dated, though it's a matter of personal preference).
What do you guys rate her? I hope low so there is more for me.
True, and this bugs me, but the surgery was 22 days after our first date. It's not exactly like she deceived me as much as went through with it. Will she really like the men who didn't like her when she had small boobs? She's already a gorgeous stripper. I don't imagine the competition will get any worse. She's already pretty much as hot as possible.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I work on graphics and camera technology plus I own a business so I can hire models for either hardware testing, film editing or advertising. All camera equipment and related expenses are deductible for tech companies. Girls love it when they get a real modeling job and can expense the dress, and they will bend over backwards to do their hair, et cetera. Few things provide such great feedback for photography and graphics as beautiful women. We automatically process hundreds of variables when we see them.What is this photography stuff, just out of curiousity? IIRC that is not a business. Is it just a hobby, or is it some sort of tool you use to engage women?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
"Rate my girl" sub-forum sounds better.maybe we should have a "rate my girl" thread?
I don't know her well, true. But note that nearly 9 months elapsed between when I met her and when I got her number. It was the fourth text that I said "Wait, didn't we meet before at a hotel where you worked?" By that point we had already met for lunch, kissed, and she (later confessed) she fell for me when I managed to pull off a 3 way kiss with her and an equally hot girl. We had 3 dinner dates in the 3 weeks prior to her getting a boob job, which was already scheduled and paid for. True, not enough to know her, but saying 3 dates in 9 months is misleading.8.
And I can see why she wanted a boob job.
She'll probably be an 8+ with a decent chest no problem.
But 3 dates over a 9 month period isn't long enough to judge someone's personality...Sutely you'd know this at 41. I suspect at this stage OP is just bored and trolling us hard.
This is a good idea if we can keep things anonymous. Hot or Not isn't good anymore, and I'd rather just have the opinions of 90% Trump supporters here."Rate my girl" sub-forum sounds better.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.