mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Yeah but he don't like fake ones. Some of us don't no matter how they "look".Well sh!t, she just slightly enlarged her bust size dude, she didn't die.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah but he don't like fake ones. Some of us don't no matter how they "look".Well sh!t, she just slightly enlarged her bust size dude, she didn't die.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
(See above. About a 9. She is the most beautiful woman I've ever dated, though it's a matter of personal preference).Looks wise, what would you rate her at?
True, and this bugs me, but the surgery was 22 days after our first date. It's not exactly like she deceived me as much as went through with it. Will she really like the men who didn't like her when she had small boobs? She's already a gorgeous stripper. I don't imagine the competition will get any worse. She's already pretty much as hot as possible.@bigneil
Not bad at all...those are all before pics right? It looks like it from the bust you describe.
I have 2 pieces of advice I can offer.
1. Since she's already done this, just tell her you need to take them for a test drive. Maybe make a thing out of it where you try to get her to "convince" you to like the new bolt-ons.
2. To me, she did this for the attention. She already knew you liked small tits, yet she did it anyway. Over the course of the next year it seems likely she'll want to spend less time with you cause she wants to get all the mileage out of them that she can.
I have a preference for shorter women and I'm 6'3-4"ish like you and mostly muscle. I'd give her a solid 8. Small A cup to a decent small C I'm guessing which will look awesome. I have a propensity for a girl having a perfect smile otherwise my hotness scale drops for her.(See above. About a 9. She is the most beautiful woman I've ever dated, though it's a matter of personal preference).
What do you guys rate her? I hope low so there is more for me.
True, and this bugs me, but the surgery was 22 days after our first date. It's not exactly like she deceived me as much as went through with it. Will she really like the men who didn't like her when she had small boobs? She's already a gorgeous stripper. I don't imagine the competition will get any worse. She's already pretty much as hot as possible.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I work on graphics and camera technology plus I own a business so I can hire models for either hardware testing, film editing or advertising. All camera equipment and related expenses are deductible for tech companies. Girls love it when they get a real modeling job and can expense the dress, and they will bend over backwards to do their hair, et cetera. Few things provide such great feedback for photography and graphics as beautiful women. We automatically process hundreds of variables when we see them.What is this photography stuff, just out of curiousity? IIRC that is not a business. Is it just a hobby, or is it some sort of tool you use to engage women?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
"Rate my girl" sub-forum sounds better.maybe we should have a "rate my girl" thread?
I don't know her well, true. But note that nearly 9 months elapsed between when I met her and when I got her number. It was the fourth text that I said "Wait, didn't we meet before at a hotel where you worked?" By that point we had already met for lunch, kissed, and she (later confessed) she fell for me when I managed to pull off a 3 way kiss with her and an equally hot girl. We had 3 dinner dates in the 3 weeks prior to her getting a boob job, which was already scheduled and paid for. True, not enough to know her, but saying 3 dates in 9 months is misleading.8.
And I can see why she wanted a boob job.
She'll probably be an 8+ with a decent chest no problem.
But 3 dates over a 9 month period isn't long enough to judge someone's personality...Sutely you'd know this at 41. I suspect at this stage OP is just bored and trolling us hard.
This is a good idea if we can keep things anonymous. Hot or Not isn't good anymore, and I'd rather just have the opinions of 90% Trump supporters here."Rate my girl" sub-forum sounds better.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.