mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Yeah but he don't like fake ones. Some of us don't no matter how they "look".Well sh!t, she just slightly enlarged her bust size dude, she didn't die.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yeah but he don't like fake ones. Some of us don't no matter how they "look".Well sh!t, she just slightly enlarged her bust size dude, she didn't die.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
(See above. About a 9. She is the most beautiful woman I've ever dated, though it's a matter of personal preference).Looks wise, what would you rate her at?
True, and this bugs me, but the surgery was 22 days after our first date. It's not exactly like she deceived me as much as went through with it. Will she really like the men who didn't like her when she had small boobs? She's already a gorgeous stripper. I don't imagine the competition will get any worse. She's already pretty much as hot as possible.@bigneil
Not bad at all...those are all before pics right? It looks like it from the bust you describe.
I have 2 pieces of advice I can offer.
1. Since she's already done this, just tell her you need to take them for a test drive. Maybe make a thing out of it where you try to get her to "convince" you to like the new bolt-ons.
2. To me, she did this for the attention. She already knew you liked small tits, yet she did it anyway. Over the course of the next year it seems likely she'll want to spend less time with you cause she wants to get all the mileage out of them that she can.
I have a preference for shorter women and I'm 6'3-4"ish like you and mostly muscle. I'd give her a solid 8. Small A cup to a decent small C I'm guessing which will look awesome. I have a propensity for a girl having a perfect smile otherwise my hotness scale drops for her.(See above. About a 9. She is the most beautiful woman I've ever dated, though it's a matter of personal preference).
What do you guys rate her? I hope low so there is more for me.
True, and this bugs me, but the surgery was 22 days after our first date. It's not exactly like she deceived me as much as went through with it. Will she really like the men who didn't like her when she had small boobs? She's already a gorgeous stripper. I don't imagine the competition will get any worse. She's already pretty much as hot as possible.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I work on graphics and camera technology plus I own a business so I can hire models for either hardware testing, film editing or advertising. All camera equipment and related expenses are deductible for tech companies. Girls love it when they get a real modeling job and can expense the dress, and they will bend over backwards to do their hair, et cetera. Few things provide such great feedback for photography and graphics as beautiful women. We automatically process hundreds of variables when we see them.What is this photography stuff, just out of curiousity? IIRC that is not a business. Is it just a hobby, or is it some sort of tool you use to engage women?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
"Rate my girl" sub-forum sounds better.maybe we should have a "rate my girl" thread?
I don't know her well, true. But note that nearly 9 months elapsed between when I met her and when I got her number. It was the fourth text that I said "Wait, didn't we meet before at a hotel where you worked?" By that point we had already met for lunch, kissed, and she (later confessed) she fell for me when I managed to pull off a 3 way kiss with her and an equally hot girl. We had 3 dinner dates in the 3 weeks prior to her getting a boob job, which was already scheduled and paid for. True, not enough to know her, but saying 3 dates in 9 months is misleading.8.
And I can see why she wanted a boob job.
She'll probably be an 8+ with a decent chest no problem.
But 3 dates over a 9 month period isn't long enough to judge someone's personality...Sutely you'd know this at 41. I suspect at this stage OP is just bored and trolling us hard.
This is a good idea if we can keep things anonymous. Hot or Not isn't good anymore, and I'd rather just have the opinions of 90% Trump supporters here."Rate my girl" sub-forum sounds better.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.