"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Did your father pass any knowledge to you? or did he keep it to himself?Originally posted by Gpaq
The best DJ i've ever met is my father. Met my mother when he was 19. He kept dating multiple girls till he was 32 and all this time he kept f@#ng my mother. In the end, he chose HER and stayed monogamous till today (he's 58).
- Meet, enjoy and be loved by as many women you want. When it's time for you to settle down, keep your pennis to your pants and chose the one that gave you the best time.
- The only woman that deserves your true love and devotion is the mother of your child.
- You don't need a woman's company. What you need is the way a great woman makes your life more joyfull.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
So what lead you to this site, when you have a good role model at home?Originally posted by Gpaq
He did not give me any advice on specific situations. He basically told me 3 things:
- Meet, enjoy and be loved by as many women you want. When it's time for you to settle down, keep your pennis to your pants and chose the one that gave you the best time.
- The only woman that deserves your true love and devotion is the mother of your child.
- You don't need a woman's company. What you need is the way a great woman makes can make your life more joyfull.
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Good tips, but I can't totally agree with the 2nd one. The mother of your child can turn out to be a total dush bag, I've seen it happen.Originally posted by Gpaq
He did not give me any advice on specific situations. He basically told me 3 things:
- Meet, enjoy and be loved by as many women you want. When it's time for you to settle down, keep your pennis to your pants and chose the one that gave you the best time.
- The only woman that deserves your true love and devotion is the mother of your child.
- You don't need a woman's company. What you need is the way a great woman makes can make your life more joyfull.