Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Did your father pass any knowledge to you? or did he keep it to himself?Originally posted by Gpaq
The best DJ i've ever met is my father. Met my mother when he was 19. He kept dating multiple girls till he was 32 and all this time he kept f@#ng my mother. In the end, he chose HER and stayed monogamous till today (he's 58).
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
So what lead you to this site, when you have a good role model at home?Originally posted by Gpaq
He did not give me any advice on specific situations. He basically told me 3 things:
- Meet, enjoy and be loved by as many women you want. When it's time for you to settle down, keep your pennis to your pants and chose the one that gave you the best time.
- The only woman that deserves your true love and devotion is the mother of your child.
- You don't need a woman's company. What you need is the way a great woman makes can make your life more joyfull.
Good tips, but I can't totally agree with the 2nd one. The mother of your child can turn out to be a total dush bag, I've seen it happen.Originally posted by Gpaq
He did not give me any advice on specific situations. He basically told me 3 things:
- Meet, enjoy and be loved by as many women you want. When it's time for you to settle down, keep your pennis to your pants and chose the one that gave you the best time.
- The only woman that deserves your true love and devotion is the mother of your child.
- You don't need a woman's company. What you need is the way a great woman makes can make your life more joyfull.