SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Any way wondering what bands/music you guys like. A couple of mine are say anything, bowling for soup, good charlotte, nine days.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Nice video!Bible_Belt said:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MzK0SF3r-YU
I met the Phunk Junkeez at a show they did in St Louis. There were about 20 people there. Join In was my mma walkout song.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
KarmaSutra said:Tool, Boston, .38 Special, Miles Davis.
Plenty more but this constitutes the bulk of what goes in my ears.
Fun to play on guitar.SamTheHobit said:What do you guys think of the red hot chillie pepper and oasis?
fvcking love RHCP. Oasis I don't listen to much but wonderwall is pretty good. I like Linkin Park, though I hated Minutes to Midnight, I even like their newer album in comparison. Then I also like Disturbed and the Rolling Stones.SamTheHobit said:What do you guys think of the red hot chillie pepper and oasis?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
everyone to their own :/Dust 2 Dust said:Atheist
Witchery
Satanic Slaughter
Judas Escariot
Godkiller
Deicide
Morbid Angel
Rotting Christ
Destroyer 666
Satyricon
Mortician
Serialized3 said:I'm gonna take you by surprise, and shoot it in your eyes, Amanda
I'm gonna treat you like a man, and bang you in the can, Amanda
There's a parking spot to the left of mine; #664. Mine's labeled, "665 - The Neighbor of The Beast". The one to the right is Crowley's.Dust 2 Dust said:Atheist
Witchery
Satanic Slaughter
Judas Escariot
Godkiller
Deicide
Morbid Angel
Rotting Christ
Destroyer 666
Satyricon
Mortician
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.