"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Favorite band?

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Any way wondering what bands/music you guys like. A couple of mine are say anything, bowling for soup, good charlotte, nine days.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ah man, I listen to classics like Lynyrd Skynyrd, Pet Shop Boys, Tupac, Israel Vibrations, Paris, Manowar, Ministry.

And lately I'm into underground militant hip hop, anti illuminati global resistance type of stuff. Here are a few good ones, you gotta hear these!.

Rook Da Rukus - holy locomotive, when the **** hits the fan, let yah chappa go

ATMA - Red Alert On Planet Earth, Ancient Knowledge

Sick Since - The Ashtar Command

Beast 1333 - Mouth of Madness, W.W.S.D.

There are many many many more, but this should give you a good taste of the variety I like the best.
 

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Muse

U2

Disturbed

Godsmack

Tool

The Killers

Any 80's New Wave like A Flock of Seagulls, Depeche Mode, etc
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Screw bands, I listen to rap.

Mac Mall

Canibus.

Yes I will put in Coldplay for when the b!tches come over.
 

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Bad Company, The Rolling Stones, Pink Floyd, old U2, Steve Miller Band, mainly classic bands from the Upper Pantheon...

Of the classics, Saint-Saens is my favorite. When I was 5 years old, my mom rented the first cartoon ever made. It was a halloween theme, with skeletons line-dancing in front of an old house, and Saint-Saens' Danse Macabre scored the film. I went into ecstasies upon seeing it, and I have cherished that piece ever since.

I highly recommend the various Ave Marias of antiquity, Schubert and Bach are good. Also, check out the film scores of Ennio Morricone, he is the most prolific film composer of all time. He got his start on the old spaghetti westerns and has scored a vast array of movies over the years.

Plus I grew up in the country so throw in Garth Brooks, George Strait, and Hank Senior.

I really can't get into much new music. It's always whining or blaming someone else for their problems. I want to grab those punks and say, "Quit being a pvssy, NOW!"
 

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Dream Theater, Coheed & Cambria, Porcupine Tree, Smashing Pumpkins, Death Cab For Cutie, Beach House, Dimmu Borgir, Megadeth, My Bloody Valentine, Rush, Yes, U2, Pink Floyd, RHCP, Opeth, Fall Out Boy, etc etc etc etc.

Finding new music is my life
 
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The bands I like are as follows: The Smiths, Joy Division, The Cure, Idlewild, Smashing Pumpkins, Foals, The Pixies, Pearl Jam and Bloc Party.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tool, Boston, .38 Special, Miles Davis.

Plenty more but this constitutes the bulk of what goes in my ears.

I'm gonna take you by surprise, and shoot it in your eyes, Amanda

I'm gonna treat you like a man, and bang you in the can, Amanda
 

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What do you guys think of the red hot chillie pepper and oasis?
 

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What do you guys think of the red hot chillie pepper and oasis?
fvcking love RHCP. Oasis I don't listen to much but wonderwall is pretty good. I like Linkin Park, though I hated Minutes to Midnight, I even like their newer album in comparison. Then I also like Disturbed and the Rolling Stones.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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At the moment, Armin van Buuren and Tiesto for sure. Before that, I liked Paul van Dyk the most, then came Paul Oakenfold and Sasha.

Anything with a guitar is not really my thing. In fact, I only listen to trance, house, techno, and downbeat music.
 

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Atheist
Witchery
Satanic Slaughter
Judas Escariot
Godkiller
Deicide
Morbid Angel
Rotting Christ
Destroyer 666
Satyricon
Mortician
 

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Dust 2 Dust said:
Atheist
Witchery
Satanic Slaughter
Judas Escariot
Godkiller
Deicide
Morbid Angel
Rotting Christ
Destroyer 666
Satyricon
Mortician
everyone to their own :/
 

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Serialized3 said:
I'm gonna take you by surprise, and shoot it in your eyes, Amanda

I'm gonna treat you like a man, and bang you in the can, Amanda

"I'm gonna bang you hard today, so you can't walk away, Amanda."

:rockon:

I'm also an old-school Country guy. George Strait, Clint Black, Bocephus, and anyone who says they don't like, at least one, Garth Brooks tune is a lying ass b!tch.
 

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Dust 2 Dust said:
Atheist
Witchery
Satanic Slaughter
Judas Escariot
Godkiller
Deicide
Morbid Angel
Rotting Christ
Destroyer 666
Satyricon
Mortician
There's a parking spot to the left of mine; #664. Mine's labeled, "665 - The Neighbor of The Beast". The one to the right is Crowley's.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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