SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Any way wondering what bands/music you guys like. A couple of mine are say anything, bowling for soup, good charlotte, nine days.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Nice video!Bible_Belt said:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MzK0SF3r-YU
I met the Phunk Junkeez at a show they did in St Louis. There were about 20 people there. Join In was my mma walkout song.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
KarmaSutra said:Tool, Boston, .38 Special, Miles Davis.
Plenty more but this constitutes the bulk of what goes in my ears.
Fun to play on guitar.SamTheHobit said:What do you guys think of the red hot chillie pepper and oasis?
fvcking love RHCP. Oasis I don't listen to much but wonderwall is pretty good. I like Linkin Park, though I hated Minutes to Midnight, I even like their newer album in comparison. Then I also like Disturbed and the Rolling Stones.SamTheHobit said:What do you guys think of the red hot chillie pepper and oasis?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
everyone to their own :/Dust 2 Dust said:Atheist
Witchery
Satanic Slaughter
Judas Escariot
Godkiller
Deicide
Morbid Angel
Rotting Christ
Destroyer 666
Satyricon
Mortician
Serialized3 said:I'm gonna take you by surprise, and shoot it in your eyes, Amanda
I'm gonna treat you like a man, and bang you in the can, Amanda
There's a parking spot to the left of mine; #664. Mine's labeled, "665 - The Neighbor of The Beast". The one to the right is Crowley's.Dust 2 Dust said:Atheist
Witchery
Satanic Slaughter
Judas Escariot
Godkiller
Deicide
Morbid Angel
Rotting Christ
Destroyer 666
Satyricon
Mortician
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.