SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Any way wondering what bands/music you guys like. A couple of mine are say anything, bowling for soup, good charlotte, nine days.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nice video!Bible_Belt said:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MzK0SF3r-YU
I met the Phunk Junkeez at a show they did in St Louis. There were about 20 people there. Join In was my mma walkout song.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
KarmaSutra said:Tool, Boston, .38 Special, Miles Davis.
Plenty more but this constitutes the bulk of what goes in my ears.
Fun to play on guitar.SamTheHobit said:What do you guys think of the red hot chillie pepper and oasis?
fvcking love RHCP. Oasis I don't listen to much but wonderwall is pretty good. I like Linkin Park, though I hated Minutes to Midnight, I even like their newer album in comparison. Then I also like Disturbed and the Rolling Stones.SamTheHobit said:What do you guys think of the red hot chillie pepper and oasis?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
everyone to their own :/Dust 2 Dust said:Atheist
Witchery
Satanic Slaughter
Judas Escariot
Godkiller
Deicide
Morbid Angel
Rotting Christ
Destroyer 666
Satyricon
Mortician
Serialized3 said:I'm gonna take you by surprise, and shoot it in your eyes, Amanda
I'm gonna treat you like a man, and bang you in the can, Amanda
There's a parking spot to the left of mine; #664. Mine's labeled, "665 - The Neighbor of The Beast". The one to the right is Crowley's.Dust 2 Dust said:Atheist
Witchery
Satanic Slaughter
Judas Escariot
Godkiller
Deicide
Morbid Angel
Rotting Christ
Destroyer 666
Satyricon
Mortician
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.